So there is this girl(HB8.5) at my university who I have been friends with for a year now. I have kissed her in the past when we were both pretty drunk on a night out, which she doesn't remember (which we joke about).
After getting back from summer break I see her on the first night in a bar. I talk to her and we joke about getting married after she sees I'm wearing a ring. We tease and flirt relentlessly with a lot of kino, multiple times over a couple of hours. Later in the same night she comes over to talk while I'm on the dance floor with my mates and after talking says "are we supposed to get with each other now?".
So we kiss and flirt some more, after a while she goes back to her mates. Later in the night we kiss once more (not french kiss this time). So I walk her out of the club with my mates and her mates, who all know each other. We talk and flirt while hugging basically the whole time, but we both go our separate ways and don't fuck.
I forgot to mention we were constantly talking about going on dates the whole night and talking about the next time we'll see each other.
2 days later I text her and ask if she and her friends are up for going to a house party, she asks who else is going and agrees. My mates and I left the house party before she arrived as I told her not to come because it was dead, but she turned up anyway but we'd already left :/
Finally last night I was out again and see her a few times on a bar crawl (small town haha). I text her a few times on the night out and she doesn't reply. I see her towards the end of the night, and don't make out with her but we hug and flirt constantly on the way home. When we're talking she tells me she's not ready to date as she's still trying to get over another guy. (I think she split up with a guy recently because they lived too far away or something). She also later tells my buddy that she likes me just as friends (I didn't get this impression at all btw) after he mentions she should go and find me (top guy).
So here's the dilemma, I don't go to the same university as her anymore as I transferred to another about half an hour away in neighboring city. How do I get things going again, bearing in mind she's not super in to me right now, and I don't live in the same town. I think my main issue before was coming across to needy as she seemed to love everything else I was about.
Thanks for reading any advice is appreciated as I
really like this girl.
CHAT