hello.

I have several problems, I want to share those that are most important to me and I hope that you can give some good suggestions. Please be so fair as to only reply to those questions that you genuinely have good answers for, in other words, your knowledge is rooted in experience.

1. I'm studying. I managed to get a very ugly girl as a fuck buddy. Better than nothing I think. I try to get a better looking girlfriend but I failed so far. So today in classes I saw a guy who started with me together with a girl who started with me together and whom I approached and who rejected me. She mainly rejected me because I followed that advice in some pickup forms, that you should not openly approach at University. So I basically was holding back my sexual state to not be seen as a sexual predator(I am 30, most are 21). It backfired and made me look asexual. So she's really good looking. So I saw them stroking each other, kissing each other in class, actually right in front of me. I was furious. But basically what I did was trying to follow the right rules. And, not being able to distinguish what is a good advice and what is bad advice, this is where I got stuck. So I had to see them this time and I'm going to have to see them tomorrow and again and again and again this guy fucking the girl that I wanted to fuck. And I have no idea what to do about it.

Nowadays, whenever I talk to women they are bored, looking around frequently, waiting for something better to happen.

2. There are many guys who are younger than me, who listened to me talk and then immediately project, that they see me as a failure. Or whenever they contradict something I say and they have a deep voice, my mind shuts down and I cannot talk, making it seem that some 21 yo can easily make a 30 yo shut up. Often it is so convincing what they say, that I just realized "well I must be dumb", which is no useful conclusion for me.

3. Recently, I went to a new martial arts class. Instead of teaching me the martial arts, giving me the ability to blow off steam, he preferred to worship some guy on a picture on the wall like a homosexual. Then he demanded us to wear certain shirts. Everything but me being able to blow off steam. Standing at attention - are we in the military? But all courses seem to be like that.

4. I have an overbite and I have my front teeth on my lower lip aswell as a jaw rotated basically in all three dimensions, so my teeth don't naturally match. I notice that especially when there are challenging lectures and my mind wanders. I read that plastic surgery is the only way in my age but I also heard that - if not done well - I can get paralyzed in my mouth.

5. I think I am wasting my life at university.

1. Why shouldn't you approach at universities? If by 'studying' you mean you are a student then whoever gave you that advice is wrong... There's nothing wrong with approaching at school, if you see a girl you would like to get to know.

2. Just smile, ignore him and keep talking. Also, when you make your points and you talk, correct your posture, stand up straight, and be confident.

3. I have no clue what to even say to this. Don't take the silly course if you don't like it.

4. I am not a doctor... but if it really bothers you or concerns you, maybe you should see a dentist for a consult. I'm sure they can tell you exactly how to fix the issue.

5. You may need help outside of what we can give you here? It's impossible to comment on this point, as we have no insight into why you feel that way, who you are, what your personality is like, what your interests are, etc... There are way too many variables to be able to contribute useful advice here.

How do I make this girl fall in love with me that he's with?

1. Go for girls who are not already with another guy. She is kissing him right in front of you, she is obviously not attracted to you.

2. You have low self esteem. You are too worried that disagreeing with people will make you unpopular. Stop caring what other people think. Being unpopular for being honest will make people respect you more.

3. Go on a different course. These type of spiritual martial arts classes are a waste of time. Find an MMA class instead.

4. Surgery is very common nowadays and the success rate of many procedures is improving. Go to a reputable surgeon with good reviews and don't be afraid to travel to ensure you get the best SPAM. We are talking about your face here, so don't try to cut corners just to save money. The procedure you mentioned is very popular in South Korea.

5. What do you want out of life? What kind of career do you want? Will your university degree help you in that career?

They arrived together, sat in front of me and didn't look at me once. They did not even notice I was there, not to mention demonstrate disinterest.
It does, but there are many possibilities to fail the studies. And I am talking academically, not only because of jealousy.

You've got one-itis. You need to fix your social confidence, self esteem and insecurities before you can attract women.

Women are replaceable. This girl is not special.

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Instead of a traditional martial arts class, maybe try an MMA class. Never heard of one of those being boring.

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