I dated this girl, and things moved quickly, she was chasing me. We got into a relationship, but after a few weeks I messed up and became the chaser, i should have seen the red flags. She told me she loved me over text for the first time, and I said I'd tell her in person. A few days later she overdosed on triple c (drugs) and said she didn't want to be in a relationship right now and that she would be an uncontrollable girlfriend, with withdrawals that were embarassing for her. She said we wouldn't be broken up forever, and she wasn't going to date anyone else for a while. So I did the no contact, and she kept hitting me up, but I was nice to her and we were both kind of cold to each other but friendly still. A few weeks into no contact and she's dating her ex. My question is should I call her out on this? She's friends with a lot of my friends as well. And I know she's a freak type of girl who needs a lot of drama to be attracted (these are the types of girls I like sadly lolol). I know she's bad for me but it's so fun and I want to have her as a sex buddy/friend in the future. What should I do?

I read OD'ed and stopped.

Ditch that girl man. Ditch her right the fuck now.

You seriously don't need that type of drama in your life.

If I was in your place I'd walk out and go look for something better. There's a lot of girls out there who can make you happy and move you forward through life. Don't stick to girls who'll bring you down in anyway. Always think long-run.

How would I go about calling her put on this. We have many mutual friends and I'd like to turn her into a fuck buddy, but I don't want to be in a relationship with her

1st of all I personally don't think you want to be involved with this girl even casually because of her drama, but the fact that you're talking about calling her out tells me you're too emotionally attached to be able to have a no strings relationship with this girl.

What I'm gonna suggest here is exactly what was told to me by a natural game mastermind and its true.

If I were you I'd never talk to her again I'd walk away right now not only because of her drama, but the fact that being able to walk away from a girl you have feelings for and never look back knowing you can attract another girl with relative ease will do wonders for your confidence and help create the necessary abundance mentality.

However if you decide you want her back don't call her out that's emotional and you're putting all your cards on the table and showing you have little to no options aside from her. Nothing is more unnatractive to a woman than. Carry on meet new women and she'll sense it as soon as she's sensed that you've moved on you'll be amazed at how fast she comes running to you. By calling her out and contacting her you're pushing her away and she's gonna go away. Nows the time to pull all the way back and pull her toward you. Being aloof and unemotional toward her will be far more effectice than calling her out.

Like I said I think you should move forward and forget this one, but if you decide you want her follow my advice and you'll get her.

Hope that helps good luck!

Thanks gunfighter I do feel emotionally attached to this girl because she really was a perfect 10, and her personality is the type where she doesn't give a kitten about anything, and she's so adventurous she puts a lot of guys to shame.