Disclaimer: Not really about picking up guys in a sexual way!!!!


Ok guys quick intro.. I work in the entertainment industry I also work on the side as a pretty successful dating coach.

When it comes to women I am quite experienced and usually have no issues and see great success in my clients when using my direction.. I want to see if we/I can pick up some tips here based on our experiences studying relationships and social science and dynamics more than the rest of the world. So lets see.

In my work I have got to work with many celebrities, and many high profile people of the industry.. While I gain great respect for my manner and demeanor at work or as we would call it etiquette, up to this point I have yet to really befriend one of the high profile people to the point where we will go hang out or have a drink or do side projects etc..

Now I have known one of my biggest MISTAKES and flaws for a long time with these people (never women, unless in this setting where I was of lower employment status) was demonstrating too little value of myself and too much for them. Basically SPEAKING UP to them instead of on level with them.. I personally think this was my biggest downfall, not licking ass but being a little too nice.

Was it Mystery who said win over the guys and the girls are yours? In Napoleon Hills books he talks about adapting a likable attitude and personality which I understand of course but my problem all this time is that I've been too nice. I feel there is situations where had I just been a little colder me and "famous dude" could of ended up being good friends.

Don't get me wrong im not short of friends, I have a lot of good friends which is more important than being friends with someone because their famous. But in my business its all about who you know not what you know most of the time.. So this will give me an edge if I am to befriend these people...

Apart from the flaw I mentioned above, what else have you guys noticed or picked up along the way in gaining friendships with people of higher status, famous people or people who are genuinely hard to reach.

Theres been quite a few out there I have mutual understandings with but when it comes to getting a beer or whatever it doesn't get to that level.. And then theres the guys who are cool with a few drinks on them but don't want to know afterwards.

For example; this weekend I met a huge actor out at some club, we talked and he was genuinely cool at the time and when I told him what I did etc, he called me on the spot with his phone so I would have his number he told me to call him to set up a meet as we had mutual business I could of helped him with. So I call him yesterday, he picks up hes kind of receptive and then says I cant talk now ill call you back. No call back so today I just shot him a text explaining that I know hes busy and made a suggestion about how I can help his project and also told him if he could fit in a meet before he left town that would be great...

I know its different after a night on the sauce... but you see what I am getting at.. Is it just that I have not being demonstrating enough value of myself to these people I look up to or is there more to it.. What have you guys learned in these scenarios? I know another thing is you always almost have to have something to offer, girls work well, but you know?

Interested to hear your thoughts!

Wow, shameful self promotion.

Take a hike buddy.

Wow really?

Just so everyone can see here is a PM i sent the above poster.. Hot headed, small minded.. Why aren't the giveaway signs of an AFC?


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You know the ONLY reason I mentioned what I do is so I didn't receive noob answers.. And just so you know guys im not looking for any new clients, I dont have the time and my clients are LOCAL and REFERRED only. My main career is too demanding for that anyways.

Wow I cant believe some people.

What the fuck is going on?

Joe Girard. His approach takes time and effort but those deliver results. 4 books. I read about two a very long time ago.

If you want something easy, I can't help you with that.

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