TLDR: Any tips for how to turn "are you out tonight?" messages into meeting a girl in a club again?

Had this situation a few times:

- Meet a girl in a pub or a club, we go back to mine, have sex and she stays over.

- I find that girls you meet in pubs/clubs can be cautious to meet up again especially if you were both a bit drunk (I know you can work on this but these situations happen sometimes). Bumping into them on a night out is usually a sure fire way to hook up again plus get them more attracted to you.

- We're messaging a bit during the week and when it gets to the weekend and we're both out, either she'll say she's out that night or I'll do it as part of the conversation. How do you usually play things so you end up meeting that night?

- If she's with a lot of friends, getting her to drag her friends to where you are isn't likely. You also don't want to seem like you're dragging all your friends somewhere or ditching your friends to come find her.

- Should you tell her you want to see her that night? Should you suggest going to the same place? Should you tell her to come get you? Obviously you don't want to seem needy!

A few anecdotes:

- Had a girl tell me she wasn't really with anyone she was that close with come leave her friends to come find me (probably rare!).

- Had a girl drag her 1 friend to where I was (found this out later) because she wanted to meet me so saying where you are can be worthwhile. This has happened a couple of times.

- Had a girl just factually update me where she was a few times without explicitly saying we should meet, told her we might be going to the same place later (we like the same music), she tells me it's good, say I'm going, find her and hook up. I could have just been there by myself for all she knew as it was busy.

- Had a girl tell me when she was leaving mine we should meet up at the weekend. I just told her where we were going later and she brought her 3 friends along.