Hey guys, im new to the PUA community and have been going out with this girl for some time. Me and her would go to restaurants and we'd alternate who payed. At first she seemed very interested in me and she was first to show interest. I met her through a good friend of mine once when I has at his house. For the last few dates, shes been acting weird and rejected a good night kiss but then rubbed my inner thigh then got out of the car. Usually she'd kiss me and two days ago made out before I dropped her off. Any advice? She has stopped showing interest and stopped holding conversations. AFC is frustrated! Any way to salvage the situation? Or any tips or advice? Because I will be seeing her again whether it be through my friend or her alone with me.

Thank you

Stop initiating contact. Don't stop contact altogether, just stop being the first to reach out.

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She got bored. You went on dateS but didn't escalate so she got bored and gave up because you didn't get her hints.

You should have always been trying to get her in bed after every date.

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Thats what I figured. She actually texted me first thing this morning and wanted to hang out tonight? I told her I would let her know if I'm available later on in the day. Should I tell her I'm busy and we'll go another day or go out with her?

Dude, invite her over to hang out and then fuck her.

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Nothing wrong with going out tonight. Just don't seem over eager.

The most important thing is don't go to a restaurant, or if you do make it a short part of the night. You want to bring her to a fun place where you can actually escalate and use alot more physical contact. Go see a band, go downtown and walk the strip, go to a hang out. Constantly go for kino. Put your arm around her waste, grab her shoulder, whisper in her ear, kiss her etc. If you're wondering when, just do it. Grab her hands and pull her in close. Be the man. And if everything goes well, invite her back to your place or get an invite back to her place.

You should be pretty proud of yourself, you got a lot of procrastinating done on your last few dates.

Disregarding whether or not you are pretending not to be "to available", don't go out with her again unless you are prepared to escalate sexually.

You should never apologize or feel guilty for feeling sexual attraction for a woman, If she accepts your advances, you’re golden. If she says no, you’re respectful, but you feel it’s her loss and move on.

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Thanks everyone for the help. I made sure to not seem too eager, I'll let her know now that I'm free and I'm picking her up tonight. Not sure where to take her yet though, her parents are home and so are mine (we're 18). Its never just a restaurant, after eating we would usually go hang out somewhere else, or walk around in the city, etc. I realize I waited way too long to escalate sexually, but its definitely a learning experience.

I will try to make a complete, comprehensive list of things a hot 18 year old girl would like after a greasy burger at Denny's, a walk around the park, and a movie in your parents basement.

1. Dick

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Exactly.