How do you respond to this common shit tests/insults:

-You came to us/me [not me you] (in a bar)
-You called me! [not me you] (on phone)
-You askt me out, [not me you](on phone/FB)

I tried with "Of course, I am the boy" ... but it seems like not enough for their standards.

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I am not an ENGLISH native. But I hope all of you will understand me.

None of those are shit tests.

Then what are them ? It can be a bad frame... ok then how to get out from it, if you got into them. Or at less you walk up with your head up

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I am not an ENGLISH native. But I hope all of you will understand me.

In what context would a girl even say any of these things to you?, unless you're being a total jerk to her? (Seriously, I can't think of how these would come up in conversation)...

Those aren't shit tests, actually.

That's what I'm curious about too.

Ok , in a club ...


You may want to grab a girl number and her friend may try to fxxx with you somehow, including taking her for a dance, etc... then you tell to the protective girl (usually the fattest from the group) "hey , is not polite!" , and she will replay back "uhh you came to us!".

Or sometimes the girls can be nervous on others things, you tell them "hey, is not polite" and you get like 50,50 chance (ok maybe sometimes 80% in your favor depending on the girls you pick up) , and they put back that shit "you came to me" " you chooses me"... Not all, but around 20-50%.

it can happen even at first date "I don't like that you showed up 15 minutes later on" , and bla bla bla

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I am not an ENGLISH native. But I hope all of you will understand me.

So maybe don't tell them "hey that's not polite"?

I have literally NEVER had a girl say that to me.

Don't be defensive. If they're rude, laugh it off. When it's not fun, its not happening.

Befriend the friends. If you're opening group sets you need to gain acceptance, before isolating the target. If they all like you and think you're a cool guy, they won't worry she's going to get spiked or raped or killed.

Don't open a 2 set solo, you have trouble isolating because you can't just expect her friend to stand around alone.