I love the strip club. I'm a guy who's witty, talkative, and moderately good looking but I'm also reserved, shy around new people, and confidence issues that are generally well concealed. So I LOVE the strip club, the girls are friendly and they approach ME. I've fallen madly in love with two of them since I started going a little over a year and a half ago. The one I was most recently in love with, she really seemed to like me. She shared with me very personal details and I got the sense she geniuly thought that I'm a nice guy, and I'm funny. Instead of giving me a "dance" in the VIP room, she'd just sit on my lap and talk to me.. She said I'm the only customer like that Every time I'd tip her a 50$ her eyes would light, she's so beautiful. One time she told me she wanted to kiss me.. Although she never went through with it she recently got in trouble with the law and has some steep court fees.. I'm thinking about paying them for her, and wondering if she'd finally fall in love with me if I did so.. Yet another side of me is screaming "DON'T".. Part of me knows the strip club is a HORRIBLE investment and my chances of success are extremely low. And that part has been winning out as I haven't been to it in three weeks..

In addition to any advice one may have on the aforementioned, feel free to offer up some useful tips for strip club game in general, I'm badly in need.

Bro don't do that big mistake. Your gonna get your money taken and your heart broken. She might be into you sure but you don't know that bro she could be putting you together. If she likes you then she can date you but no need to pay her court fees. She is a stripper she makes good money. Do you think your the first to tip her $50? Ask her out outside of the club. If she really isn't able to pay off her court fees maybe 6 months to a year pay that shit off if you want to be captain save a hoe. Her court fees will not go anywhere bro.

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Don't feed the troll...

nathoonder... I'm going to be as real as I possibly can be with you. All you are doing is paying me!!! As a prior manager of a top strip club here in Las Vegas and personal agent to a few porn stars. I will be the first to tell you that she is doing EXACTLY WHAT I WANT HER TO DO!!!!. She is a professional money troll. And her JOB is to find people EXACTLY LIKE YOU!!! The court fees she is talking about is the tickets "I got in my 700 series BMW last week racing down the Vegas Strip, acting a fool ,with her and some other hot bitches that hang out with me!!!".... LMAO!!!

STOP PAYING THE BITCHES IN THE STRIP CLUBS!!! EVEN THE WORST LOOKING BITCH IN THERE MAKES AT LEAST 500 DOLLARS A NIGHT. Do you really think your $50 bucks is getting close to her heart!!! 50 bucks is just gas money to her!!! And just because she leaves the club with you and go out with you on a dinner date doesn't mean the game is over. I have had many many many girls do EXACTLY that before they land the big fish. And once your money is short, she will disappear. The reason why is they can't stand guys like you as a boyfriend. They know they can walk all over you any time of the day and just ask for anything and you will just give it to them.

Industry Girls like that, are attracted to guys like me. Guys that tell them "HELL NO" I'm not going to buy you that, I'm not going to rub your back, I'm not going to rub your feet. They like a man to be in control and give them rules and boundaries.

I see guys just like you in the club and as soon as MY GIRLS come to the back office. They say... I got this SUCKER AND AFTER WE OFF OF WORK, CAN WE GO EAT SOME LOBSTER AND CRAB with this Fools Money!!!

Are strippers impossible to pull out of a club and make into your girlfriend? NO. However you have to take certain steps to do it. And you have to have VERY GOOD GAME. And your already going down the wrong path my son.

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this will be a long post..
im afraid to say this the previous poster is very much correct... if you are funding her you're a customer and guess what they dont sleep with their customers. being honest ive spent literally thousands of hours in strip clubs i used to go at least 2 or 3 times a week, so much so that people in the community used ask me how to pick up strippers and i did for a little bit, but now i tend to stay away after a bad incident a few months ago, (which im not getting into) i wasnt thrown out or anything like that but i got into a disagreement with a girl. but the thing is however good you think you are at game strippers are 10 times better, they love what ever you talk about, they kino,give iois and so on why...... so that youll spend money on them. ive made out with plenty of strippers and day 2'd had sex and sexual contact with loads of them. i had quite a few on my facebook twitter etc. but the truth of it is if they think it means that youll come back and spend more on them theyll allow you to do it.
ill give you a bit of my history i started going to them about 10 years ago because i wanted to desensitise myself in talking to really hot girls and it worked. in a sense it helped me get over talking to 10s. but in the end it became an expensive hobby. the first time i went i started off at 12pm and didnt leave til 5am but only spent £200 and in a sense it helped because i can talk to 10s without getting nervous the thing was it became a way to get my kicks out in that some guys would watch porn i would go to a strip club so in a sense it was a bad habit. but i used to do something odd if i had any aa come on before i felt like a sarge i would go to a strip club and see the 10s there and it made it less difficult..
back to the strippers doing anything for money ill give 2 examples
one day i saw a girl i thought was hot that id seen in my favorite club before before who was a 10 blonde and gorgeous.. but she tended to keep away from me. anyway i called her over and started ribbing with her and i was in a spending mood i wasnt intending to sarge it just to chill have a few beers and not do anything. i have my days where i dont buy dances and days that i do. i was in a dances mood. this girl takes me to the private area and she dances (the usual) when its over i jokingly say to her i ve been waiting ages to see that she says why and i tell her why (thought she had been ignoring me etc) she says we'll have to do something about that.... the next time 30 mins later i go for another with the same girl i should point out i sit on my hands (so the girl cant say i touched her and because cctv is everywhere) as soon as the bouncer walks past she pulls out my hands and puts her hands over mine and puts my hands on her breasts, the next booth time im taking her knickers off, next time im sucking her nipples and next time my finger is inside her as shes telling me how wet ive gotten her. next time im getting a hand job. but heres the point every time it escalated as im paying her money.
another occasion different club, im in the club and 10 comes over were chatting and again im in a spending mood we're in the booth she says to me shes a virgin, she says that shes not ready to have sex yet, (yeah right) and that she likes me i tell her shes cool but she doesnt want to just give me her number she wants me to come back a few more times to 'get to know her better' basically shes saying i want to see how much money youre going to spend on me under the pretext of throwing you a bone. i didnt go back for her.

finally a failure story (and kinda gross), final girl same club as the second girl different night this tan south african girl comes over we're chatting and she takes me for a dance and then another, second time she brings me in close and smells my neck for my cologne and shes telling me she likes it and its turning her on so whilst facing me shes grinding me on my crotch and kissing my neck then she lies next to me and starts fingering herself she says she wishes i could just fuck her there and then so i start telling her how i would go down on her if i could then she opens her pussy and shes me her clit and lifts the hood so i can see and its massive so i say to her to leave it open for a sec so i lightly blow onto it so she gets back up and she sits on my thigh and as shes sits down she opens with her fingers her pussy so that her open lips and clit are rubbing on my thigh and which sounds great if your not in black jeans which i am in she rubbed her clit and pussy so hard on my jeans that she came and shes a creamer so now ive just her pussy cream all over my leg in black jeans. this is where its a fail she said i want you to come round my house tomorrow and we'll get food then we can finish this off but it failed because she wanted me to memorise her number after ive had 7-8 drinks after telling me twice and me not remembering she got fed up. so it was an epic fail on my part.

heres a few pointers as youve put up with my ramblings:
1) dont drink too much as a lot of clubs have deals on alcohol, the more you drink the more you spend on dances
2) remember she will game you better then you can game her so keep an eye out for throwing false iois kino etc if she does call her out on it.
3 ) if you do want to get dances DONT GET THEM FROM THE GIRL YOU WANT TO GAME... you see you can throw jealousy plotlines into it, and if you see that she is legitimately jealous it also means that youre bringing her down a level sort of a push pull.
4) dont use the usual pickup lines ive had girls quote lines back at me theyve heard from others.
5) do not talk about the club at all! have her talk about anything but the club hobbies interests home if you talk about the club she goes into dancer customer mode.
6) if she starts talking about when are we going for a dance she isnt interested she just wants into your wallet

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I can agree with you on quite a bit but I think we're dealing with totally different environments. You were working in Las Vegas at I sure a mega-sized strip club. The one I go to is small time. It's in a city that just BARELY has enough of a population to be considered a city. "EVEN THE WORST LOOKING BITCH IN THERE MAKES AT LEAST 500 DOLLARS A NIGHT." - That REALLY makes me think we are worlds apart haha, the worst looking bitch MIGHT make 500 a month lol. It's very unlikely that even the woman I'm speaking to 500 a night.

There's no difference between poor white trash women who rely on guys who make $20K/year for their money and strippers are the finest clubs in Vegas making a couple grand per night. You are a mark. You are a sucker walking through the carnival with a chalk mark on his back. I have been to a strip club once, it was crazy fun and I'd do it again. If you understand that it is just a means of entertainment, you're good to go. If you are a shy guy who thinks these women are coming up to you OUT OF LEGITIMATE INTEREST, you will find yourself in trouble quickly.

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lets break this down
yup. that's their job
thats her job.
It's most likely all lies. to make you sympathise and be attracted.
why get paid to dance when you can get paid to talk?

Either lies or because you're the only one dumb enough

my eyes light up when I get free money. even more so when i still have clothes on.

Lies

See.

Words fail me
Finally something sensible.

By definition an investment requires returns. You are paying for a service. Unless you've actually bought a percentage of the ownership. In which case it seems a fairly good investment. Especially with guys like you around.
I'd say non-existent
Whey. Another sensible move.
Strip club game is not a thing. It's not possible. You can't chat up someone you are paying to see her boobs. In the same way you can't chat up the groceries you just bought.

Your best option is to ask if she does escort work or if she has considered prostitution.

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http://www.theskillsmethod.com/guess-po ... -sorcerer/

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