guys,

I have found out something recently. I am just not interested in what other people have to say.

your typical conversation starts with "whats your name?"
who cares about a name? it's just a name. It could be Jessica. or Ashley. or Jian Jong Hong if she is Asian. a name is just a combination of letters. my name could be ABCDE. it doesn't matter.

next, I suppose you share your interests. "I like to dance" "I like to box" yawn. I cant care less about her interests.

next I suppose you ask her if she goes to school, and where. I can't care less about where she goes to school, and her aspirations in life.

do I like tits? yes. do I like pussy? yes.
Do I have any other interests in women (or men)? no.

sorry I dont mean to sound like a sociopath here but I just dont care about the typical conversations that people have.

do I need to "correct" this? is it possible to correct it? or can I get girls the way I am?

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I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison

what conversation would interest you?

any conversation that is not dumb or useless.
I tend to like anything that involves creativity. by creativity I dont mean art. I mean "thinking outside the box"
For example: this guy said he has managed to find a product that is cheap on ebay but expensive on amazon. so he buys them on ebay, turns around and sells them on amazon for double the price. Wow, pretty creative.
I guess a conversation about how airplanes work would be cool too.

to me, anything that doesn't involve some kind of creativity is boring and useless.

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I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison

haha thats my boy.
good luck

So you want to build a house but not lay foundations?

Build a foundation and then you have to LEAD. If you want interesting conversation, don't interview her, ask her interesting questions and engage with her answers. Rather than going with the flow, vocalise opinions that differ from hers. If you actually have some knowledge on the subject, and as long as your veiws are not offensive to her, you can usually end up in a good conversation.

She says she enjoys boxing, if you know some shit about boxing, talk about that for a while. "oh did you watch the Froches / Groves match recently? What was your opinion on X?"

It's not just "i like boxing" "oh cool, so where do you go to school?" ENGAGE.

What usually gets me good conversation is asking what she is really passionate about, something that when she does it, nothing else in the world matters. And make sure you have something to share also.

You dont say, so im assuming, but it sounds like you're having a lot of conversations that lead to nowhere and are getting bored and annoyed.

Disinterest is a subconscious response to previous failures.

If you want a lecture on aerofoils, aerodynamics and the history of flight, as a physicist and engineer grad, i would be more than happy to explain.