I realized my communication with girls is not what it should be. This is a personal observation.
*I'm not talking to girl in the fram of how a man talks to a woman. Basically what I'll do is just be indirect, be interesting, I kino but I'm not sexual. I don't have a good example what that looks like. I want to know what to say to a woman at all times. (Link or book recommendations welcome).

I don't really become as flirtatious - or engage her emotions that way. I just say interesting things, almost a mix of a mr nice guy, qualify, kino and etc. I want to be the guy that makes her laugh and is flirtatious with her and keeps her on her toes - not knowing what I'll say next. Do you see what's missing. Take a moment to really understand what I'm saying. I know guys on here sometimes give half answers - it takes a lot out to type and all that. But this is something I really want to understand so please try to explain it as vividly as possible.

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Thoughts?

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also interested in seeing an answer from one of the veterans, because i'm also experinencing this.

i thought that vibing and kino alone will help get her more sexual, but it only makes her more comfortable with the interaction, but not more attracted. i try to avoid neediness with my body language and stuff like breaking rapport etc, but i think i need to get more attraction by teasing her more.

Dude, you answered your own question, this is not rocket science.

Friend to friend = regular chat. No intent. No flirting. Whatever.

Man to woman = flirt, compliment, intent, escalate, lead and close

Failure to do any of the above = friend.

The diffrence in frames is that as a man to woman you are facing rejection, which is good, she has to either reject your moves or accept them. Thats what you want. Not everygirl is gona like you, but alot will be okay, thats what you want.

As a friend to friend interaction you are not putting yourself out there so you will waste alot of time bullshiting around.

Which frame will you choose?

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