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 Post subject: Help
PostPosted: Wed Aug 13, 2014 5:42 am 
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Hello, I'm still new! i'm not sure if I should post this question her!
so i was dancing and then a women come up to me and ask me to dance ? (which is weird) I said of course and two minute after we dance, I was like let's go take a drink ! then she was like I am lost, I have to look for my friends ! then she disappeared ! my questions is WHY ??


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 Post subject: Re: Help
PostPosted: Wed Aug 13, 2014 6:00 am 
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Hello, I'm still new! i'm not sure if I should post this question her!
so i was dancing and then a women come up to me and ask me to dance ? (which is weird) I said of course and two minute after we dance, I was like let's go take a drink ! then she was like I am lost, I have to look for my friends ! then she disappeared ! my questions is WHY ??

Did you make conversation before this? Or is this all you said? You need to reel her in, offering a drink is far from being different.. Its what everyone does.. You should of practiced a little negging first, maybe joke about her dancing maybe? And then move forward when you get a couple more IOI's.


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 Post subject: Re: Help
PostPosted: Wed Aug 13, 2014 8:14 am 
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She was interested in you initially, but you didn't do anything to spark any attraction past that.

Naturally, she lost interest.

It's like you failed a test by not writing anything down on the paper!


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 13, 2014 11:15 am 
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You need to experience WAY more interactions each night you go out if this is the type of shit you're looking at.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 13, 2014 2:49 pm 
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Keep calm and move along.

Why did you motion to buy her a drink? Was the dance you had with her so amazing that you were parched and had to drink?

I believe the woman just wanted to dance, at that point it seems like you weren't comfortable with you ability to dance so you motioned to get a drink so you wouldn't have to deal with it anymore. Thats what happened. You weren't comfortable.

It happens all the time. Just keep getting out there.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 13, 2014 4:25 pm 
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Keep calm and move along.

Why did you motion to buy her a drink? Was the dance you had with her so amazing that you were parched and had to drink?

I believe the woman just wanted to dance, at that point it seems like you weren't comfortable with you ability to dance so you motioned to get a drink so you wouldn't have to deal with it anymore. Thats what happened. You weren't comfortable.

It happens all the time. Just keep getting out there.

I was just trying to initiate a conversation, because I felt that it was boring to just dance without saying any words! any tip to initiate a conversation ?


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 13, 2014 4:35 pm 
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Keep calm and move along.

Why did you motion to buy her a drink? Was the dance you had with her so amazing that you were parched and had to drink?

I believe the woman just wanted to dance, at that point it seems like you weren't comfortable with you ability to dance so you motioned to get a drink so you wouldn't have to deal with it anymore. Thats what happened. You weren't comfortable.

It happens all the time. Just keep getting out there.

I was just trying to initiate a conversation, because I felt that it was boring to just dance without saying any words! any tip to initiate a conversation ?
Just dance. Live in the moments and enjoy the motions of the dance. Its only boring to dance without talking if you are boring to dance with.

I've went straight from dancing, then back to my place without saying much of a word. And many times when you dance the girl out the conversation sparks on its own. What did you want to talk about? There is no way to have a conversation when you have no idea what you want to talk about in the first place.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 14, 2014 4:47 am 
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Keep calm and move along.

Why did you motion to buy her a drink? Was the dance you had with her so amazing that you were parched and had to drink?

I believe the woman just wanted to dance, at that point it seems like you weren't comfortable with you ability to dance so you motioned to get a drink so you wouldn't have to deal with it anymore. Thats what happened. You weren't comfortable.

It happens all the time. Just keep getting out there.

I was just trying to initiate a conversation, because I felt that it was boring to just dance without saying any words! any tip to initiate a conversation ?

I had no clue what to talk about it. I was just trying to make a move !
thank you very much for your help guys! still new but really loving this community :)

Just dance. Live in the moments and enjoy the motions of the dance. Its only boring to dance without talking if you are boring to dance with.

I've went straight from dancing, then back to my place without saying much of a word. And many times when you dance the girl out the conversation sparks on its own. What did you want to talk about? There is no way to have a conversation when you have no idea what you want to talk about in the first place.


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