I met this HB9 at a work conference. Gained her attention by purposefully ignoring her for the entire week whilst everyone else climbed over themselves. Cutting a long story short, at the end of the week we all got drunk at the hotel bar and I got her to drag me to her hotel room where she fucked me senseless. She was an animal. She ordered me around and forced me into every position. Thank god I was pissed as hell otherwise the whole thing would have lasted 3 minutes!! I got her number and we kept in contact via text /cheeky email.. I kept it light, funny and always waited for her to contact me first. We hooked up a couple of times a month (she always came over to mine). No dates, just rabid hungry mind blowing sex every time. She stayed over and left in the morning most times.

It was great until shit hit the fan. I found out she still lived with her partner and 5 year old daughter. She found out about pua and went cold. She didnt speak to me for 7 months. And I didnt call her for obvious reasons.

Then randomly I ran into her at work and we started talking again. She'd left her partner. We started fucking like animals again. Been at it (just sex, texts (and rock and roll!) for 5 months.

I'm at a crossroads. I really love having sex with her. Its pleasure beyond measure. I really like her. She seems completely into me, least when we're having sex, but has never mentioned anything to me and has never asked for anything more.

That being said, the fact she has a child makes me feel uncomfortable.

I have two options as I see it (please advise!)
A. Stick with her until she asks for more then end (cruel, but the sex is so good!) or just end it now. Consequences being I might lose this fantastic creature whose dynamite in the bedroom, lights up any room and who makes me feel really good about myself.

B. I take it further. Except I have no idea how to go about this. or if she would even consider it. She has a child for christ sake.

You're being retarded.
Stop being retarded.

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RSDTyler

Thats a pretty big red flag. She was fucking you whilst had a husband boyfriend or whatever. Sounds like a girl who gets a thrill out of being an animal for other guys outside her relationship... So you step in the old guys shoes and she starts fucking other guys like an animal while you babysit. Fuck her until she proves herself to be even more of an untrustworthy fuck doll and dip.

Or maybe you two are head over heels in love and she knew she would marry you the second she saw you and wanted to make your babies. If this is the case then its up to you

OMG! Guys, there are all of these hot married ladies wanting me for sex! How do I make it stop? I don't want to be the guy she has sex with. I prefer it be that guy over there. I mean...(hang on, fapping to Immanuel Kant....) whew! Ok. It's WRONG!

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RSDTyler

I don't see a problem here. Just enjoy it bro. As for whether to take it serious, she hasn't demonstrated herself to be someone you can trust in an LTR but it's your call.

No one else can make decisions on behalf of your life.

Personally, and that's just MY OWN opinion, I'd keep fucking her and other girls too until she ends it.

I don't think she wants anything serious if after a couple of months she didn't talk about relationship shit. So you are a fuck buddy. Enjoy while it lasts.

Ultimately you have to decide what you want, like others pointed out.

At the same time, you have what I believe close to the ideal situation for a man in these times. You have free consensual sex, and she's good at it. And there are no strings attached.

I have a woman that will give me sex every time I see her and it is free (we don't date really). However, she is far from my ideal woman. She has had kids by other men (plural). Therefore, that makes me sloppy 3rds, if not worse... I will never make this girl my "main girl/girlfriend" because she has demonstrated that she doesn't deserve it. Even more important, I don't want to be a father to someone else's children. I avoid the children like the plague.

As someone else said, if you try to "advance" the level of your relationship with this woman, you run the risk of having her dump you for the next one. Humans by nature will always want something new, and will trade up their partner if possible.