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Learn to bring out the best in ppl, and they'll be in constant servitude to you.
Yeah, this.
I'm known as the kind of guy that does this. I don't know how I really manage it or how others see it but as one person mentioned in regards to me "I don't understand but when i'm out with this guy I go crazy and have a lot of fun." I don't actually do much of anything personally but keep an even head on me and talk to whoever whenever(I'm a talkative person).
Personally what I do is have a lot of friends. Having a lot of different groups of friends really boosts your social value as you could have different things to go to every night of the week. It doesn't matter if they're attractive, ugly or whatever because every group I find has a good mixture of attractive and unattractive people in them. What matters here is you're seen as a man with a lot to do, a man whose time is valuable. This essentially results in people craving your attention and if you're fun to be around by default they crave more time with you anyway going as far as to praise the ground you walk on in order to impress you and others. I've had such high value from this alone i've had very little trouble snatching up some of the hottest women in these groups and because everyone thinks so highly of me and likes me so much no one can help but be happy when they see two valued friends hook up so there's generally little drama afterwards. It's gotten to the point for me where i'll have women kiss me they get so crazy about me.
Having a lot of groups of friends means your time will be valued. Focus on that and it should all roll together nicely.