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| dorkley | PostPosted: Tue Jul 22, 2014 2:42 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Jun 12, 2014 11:09 pm Posts: 117 | | Say you are Alpha as phuck 90 percent of the time. You deflect her shit tests and she complains you dismiss her, you are so good at it. She sees you as decisive as hell and pretty confident. You dominate her in bed
You need something to balance this out once every few months, right?
little slip ups, like asking her if it feels good like that (instead of blurting out you are my slave, take it because you love it) as usual.
or saying something about your penis/keg belly/body that isn't 100% alpha and comfortable
or showing a sad moment when your grandparents are sick
These moments make us human, and they are pretty much necessary in an LTR no? In pickup, hell no, but with your girl, you can't always be invulnerable!
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| Cdharders | PostPosted: Tue Jul 22, 2014 9:07 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Sat Nov 09, 2013 1:24 am Posts: 268 Website: https://structureofdating.com Location: Austin | | You need to be vulnerable in LTRs and in SNLs for a girl to really want to sleep with you and connect with you. DLVing yourself by saying you have a keg isn't the way. Opening up is the way. _________________ Chris
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| Gunfighter28 | PostPosted: Tue Jul 22, 2014 1:13 pm | |
Joined: Wed May 29, 2013 3:08 am Posts: 935 | | Dude you can't be 100% alpha all the time no matter how tough/alpha you really are.
I won't get into the entire story, but I once broke down and cried in front of a girl I couldn't help it. It was after a massive chain of unfortunate events. She didn't think any less of me after I felt like a bitch, but she said she was impressed I was able to show emotion like that.
That's my experience hope that helps good luck!
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| Jay (Majik) | PostPosted: Wed Jul 23, 2014 12:23 am | |
| Offline | | The Coach |  | Joined: Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:44 am Posts: 4170 Location: Chicago, IL | | You always need to show a little bit of vulnerability. Whether it be in a relationship or just a random girl you're working during a night... You've gotta show her that you are human.
And because you said "alpha as phuck" makes me question your masculinity. Quit acting like a hard ass.
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| NaughtyNapoleon | PostPosted: Wed Jul 23, 2014 12:15 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sat Jun 28, 2014 8:32 am Posts: 150 | | Showing a little vulnerable actually makes yourself more attractive and drawn the girl into you, provided she's at least a little interested on you before.
But remember just a little and drop it after a while.
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