First of all, I want to thank this forum for helping me land a girlfriend who was way out of my league.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE

I recently watched "The Gambler's" very informative video on night game. Since I am moving out of my country, I used my buddy as a guinea pig to test some of the game portrayed in the video. Believe it or not, he pulled a cute Isreali girl's number with her boyfriend standing next to her all by using the line, "hey, how have you been?".

The Gambler talks about how this puts her friends (or boyfriend) in the comfort zone, but what escapes me is how to game from there conversational wise. Obviously, she can play along, but there is also the risk of her saying, sorry I don't know who you are. How do you converse with the girl after such an opener?

Furthermore, at the end of the video The Gambler talks about how powerful this one tool of conversation is. It boils down to understanding the emotions, motivations (the why), and character traits. For instance, if they like traveling and instead of relating to your own travels and self experiences you discover their character traits by understanding that she adventurous...

Knowing that is great and all, but how do you translate that into success with your woman and opening up to you? The Gambler mentions the recipe for how to understand women better, but how to you transfer that knowledge to a better conversation, one where they will open up to you? Would an example be instead of saying, "Wow. That's cool! Where have you traveled to?" Would a better response be "Wow, you are quite the adventurous type, aren't you?".

While knowing their emotions, motivations, and character traits is all well and good, for me the most important part is how to use that to your advantage during the conversation.

"Wow! You are quite the adventurous type, aren't you" is a general assumption in the form of a question. Most likely to make her giggle before answering; opposed to just asking yet another question. You're asking another question, of course, but you're doing it in a way where it doesn't seem like you're just interviewing her. Plus something like that could transition better into something like "you know I've had an adventure once" and story time.

"Wow, that's cool! Where have you traveled to?" Answer: Rome.

"Wow! You are quite the adventurous type, aren't you?" Answer: *Giggle* I enjoy traveling a lot.

You go from one word (maybe a couple extra if you're really lucky, but it's set up for a simple reply,) to getting a positive response out of her. Her saying she loves to travel a lot, opens up a new set of directions. Telling her about your adventure, and/or moving on with "well since you enjoy it so much; let's make an adventure of our own right now! How's that sound?" Continuing to be playful.

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