Hey guys, pretty new to the forum here. I'll get straight to it.

I have a pretty religious background, and I am very strong in my beliefs. I am currently a 24 year old virgin, and I plan to stay that way until I am married. The question is:

How can I improve my game when I can't bring girls back home?

My goal is to ultimately get married, and I take the concept/idea of marriage very seriously. The majority of the people I hang out with also share my religious views/beliefs, and the girls within my religion are also expected to stay virgins until marriage. That's not the issue.

The issue is what concepts, skills, techniques of pickup can I actually adopt and use given my limits. Is the concept of a celibate PUA fundamentally flawed? Or can I take this knowledge, techniques and material and use it to help make me the best man/ future husband that I want to become?

Any ideas, suggestions or opinions would be greatly appreciated.

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This is like saying, "I want to kick Floyd Mayweather's ass in the boxing ring but I don't want to throw a single punch on the heavy bag."

Let's not kid ourselves around here. Even priests force sex with little boys. Some pastors even rape farm animals.

Do the legal and moral thing: Have sex with women 18 years old and above so you can better do your sexual obligations as a good husband.

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I know it sounds like a contradiction, but there is more to pickup than sex. There is the whole self improvement, confidence aspect of it, and just being overall more attractive to women.

That's what I want, to be better overall and be attractive and know that I chose the best possible person that I could have chosen to be my wife. It's like, my convictions and beliefs are stronger than my desire to get laid. Trust me, it's a pretty strong desire still.

As far as the sex goes, I plan on marrying a virgin too. Just imagine, all of my sexual experience will be with her, and all of hers with mine. Doesn't that create some sort of incredible bond that 99% of people in society today just don't experience? How would that be? Like, the most incredible thing right?

If I didn't have my convictions, I'd just say fuck it and go out there and game. But my view of marriage and sex is fundamentally different than the great majority of people. I plan on being with someone who also shares my beliefs.

You're on the wrong forum then. Try those Christian dating websites.

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Haha, confidence, inner game, cocky funny is stuff that works with christian girls too. That's something you can only really learn here. Plus those sites wouldn't work. People in my religion really don't do that, at least the ones that really adhere to the teachings and morals. We have like our own complete separate culture in that regard.

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Choose one with synthetic vocalizations (I think those come with batteries) and embed a high grade Doc Johnson Jenna Jameson UR3 Realistic Pussy at the anterior part for good measure.

Practice at least once a day. Constant practice will give you that unmistakable sexual confidence without compromising the undeniable strength of your moral fiber while at the same time, staying within legal bounds of established social norms.

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I doubt having sex with a plastic cow constitutes "moral fiber"....

Let me put it this way. I'm part of a club. In order to be part of this club, you have to meet certain requirements, among those are high moral standards, no illegal drug use, moderation in alcohol use, no sex before marriage, overall wholesome character. Stuff like that. I want to continue to be in this club, to me the benefits far outweigh the things I'm giving up. I want to be with someone who is also part of this club. That's the way I see it.

I'm currently thinking of how to best apply the Mystery Method in my situation. Basically, I just need to master Attraction and Comfort, I wouldn't have to worry about Seduction on the logistics of it.

Be confident, know what I want in life, be attractive and really be able to connect with people on a deeper level. That's what my goal is, that's what I'm trying to get out of all of this.

I think your club associates will be horrified once they realize you're gaming girls or learning pick up. Pick up's foundation is based on lots of practice-- approaching thousands of girls to get good with a series of skill sets.

PUA is not something to be read. It's something to be applied.

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I completely agree. I do go out and practice on non club members. No sex of course, the furthest I'll go is a make out. It's really the only option I have since practicing within the club is a stupid idea. We're a pretty tight knit community. But I figure that the skills that I do develop can be applied to club members once they are mastered right?

I suppose yes, you'll see improvement with confidence with girls if you approach and talk to lots of them, and make out with them.

I would concentrate on natural game type stuff.

I like the sound of that haha, improved confidence with girls by making out with a ton of them. Solid advice

Man, if you need advices just check the posts in the forum and the vids on youtube about pickup, but I would strongly recommend you to practice everything as much as you can...
I don't think that your beliefs are right, but I respect your choice. You can do whatever you want with your life. But remember something: are you sure you aren't waisting great occasions? Not only to have sex, but to evolve intellectually too? I mean, before you have sex with someone your view about life is a bit different.

Just something more: I think that the thing that loosing verginity after marriage bounds you with your wife more is crap. Who told you that and why you are following his advice?

Since you're open to make outs, you might really want to consider that inflatable cow with pink horns in the near future. She doesn't look slutty to me; therefore, she's wholesome.

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I agree that having sex before marriage opens up a lot of opportunities for you, both sexually and intellectually, I'm not denying that. Trust me, it's not for lack of want haha

It basically comes down to my understanding of the bible. It clearly explains that sex was meant to be enjoyed between married couples only. Anything outside of that would be considered fornication or adultery.

I'm not judging, or condemning or anything like that, to each their own. It's just the way I feel I guess. I feel like doing that would put a roadblock in my relationship with god because I wouldn't be living up to the moral standards that he asks me to. I would much rather work on having a good relationship with god than having my dick sucked, as awesome as it may be. Again, religion is a very personal thing, and it's something that is very important/strong for me.

Is it really that impossible to get good with girls when you draw the limit at make outs? If I mastered attraction, comfort and inner game, wouldn't that allow me to find the best possible wife/ life partner who also shares my beliefs?

And I looked at the cow.... She's not my type.