Hi,
I've recently identified one of my weak spots. I have some theories and plans how to try and fix that, but I would love to get your input.

So, basically, it goes like this.

Place: party organised at friend's house (male or female friend's, it depends)
People: few people who I know, plenty of people who I don't know.

What goes fine:
I easily become center of attention, make few girls interested in me, then number close or facebook close 1 or 2 and plan to continue this in the near future.

What goes wrong:
It seems that despite the fact that they were initailly interested, I just can't pick up where I left few days later/the next day.

Few additional issues you might like me to elaborate on:
- Why don't I k-close at the party?
Small flats, impossible to find secluded area, and parties are
usually thrown by the same people and I am trying to avoid being labeled as a guy who hits to a new girl every time. You know, girls usually stop introducing you to more girls when they notice that and I don't want to spoil it.

IMHO you need to work on escalating and closing THAT NIGHT.

You aren't getting traction later on down the road because they're no longer at that party... they're no longer drinking and having a great time and they're back living their own boring lives.

Seclusion is great - if you can do it, but if you can't..... leave the party. Go outside if you can't find a private area. Or build enough attraction to leave the party together.

fuck in the bathroom? the closet, the backyard.. im not sure what to tell you. you shouldnt be afraid that you wont get laid afterwards after getting laid with a few chicks already. whos to say you need those chicks to introduce new ones for you? if you afraid of that. make sure every girl you sleep with knows that its going to be a one night stand.. yes they will know who you are but probably wont mention anything about it to there girlfriends. and even if they do, she might be into it, and after a few drinks you can easily tell if a girl is DTF or not. ALSO if youve done it before with a chick thats at that party again you can always fuck her again... just a thought. make some FB's maybe you can get into a threesome . who knows .

like someone else said, the mood and tension is there at the party. they might want to fuck you at that moment and thats it.

If I were you I would work on befriending a couple of girls and making them your homie. And I would do this with a 9 or 10. Sometimes you have to make the momentary sacrifice and make friends with a 9 instead of trying to sleep with her because of the opportunities she can open up for you. You take the loss today and get the win tomorrow.

From my experiences; 9's usually don't have that " I'm not going to introduce him to anymore girls because he hits on them all thing" - Although I know exactly what you're talking about; 9's and 10's when befriended will encourage you to hit on there girlfriends.

But as the guys above said.. You do have to focus on trying to close the deal that night. A woman is a product of the moment; and if she's attractive, she's usually almost always talking with someone. How she feels one night may not be how she feels the next morning; thats why you push push push when the moment is available. But thats if you're just looking to get laid.

Now on the other hand; you can focus on building a connection with the woman you're talking to. Don't go into the part with the mindset of " let me see how many numbers I can get " - thats ugly, and for self validating losers. Go in with the mentally " let me see how many strong connections I can build ".

If your focus is the number; you'll get the number and nothing else. You get what you focus on. If your focus is on higher things; more possibilities open up.

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