Hey guys,

Hopefully you guys can give me some feedback of my experience.

So a month ago, I started to see this girl and started flirting with her a lot. She would laugh at my jokes and respond back to my flirting. Now I met her twice oversea due to business last year and thats how I knew her, and she had a boyfriend at that time and then recently she moved where I live.

After she moved here about 2 months ago, I decided to hit on her, and the chemistry was great between us and usually she would be the one calling me or texting me almost all the time. Then 2 weeks ago, our relationship started going to the next level. We became more intimate (*cough sex cough*) and started talking everyday and meeting up almost everyday. But recently, out of the blue, she told me she still has the boyfriend oversees and told me that after much thought, she wants to continue her relationship with her boyfriend that is currently overseas. I know that they had a long term relationship for about 2 years and heard from her friends that she is trying to get over with him recently.

To be honest, I am pretty bummed out, but I am at a fence here. I feel like either I should ditch her and move on, or wait on her. Hate to be the pessimist on her but long distance relationship may die out later on. After that whole "space" talk, She still talks to me and tries to have meet ups to this day. Emotional train wreck right?

Let me know what you guys think about this. Thanks for your feedback!

So what do you guys think I should do?

Hey bro,

Too me it sounds like you get to have the best of both worlds, because I don't see why you would have to pick any one of those options.

Why would you have to move on or wait?


You're talking to a girl who is currently involved in a relationship with another man so do you know what that means? It means you are free to talk to and sleep with whoever you want, because you are NOT in a relationship. You were simply having sex with a girl who had a mate in another country. Thats all it was. Give her, a little space to get her emotions in order and continue moving how you were moving before you knew her and time will heal everything. She'll come back around.

Theres no need to make any decisions though.

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Thanks for the feedback dude, yeah it was confusing, she never mentioned to me that she broke up with her boyfriend or if they were still together. Well I guess for now, I'll just do other things and later on maybe get back with her when she is truly available (emotionally as well).

Just keep being a nice dude to her, if the sex wasn't bad she might want it again. Just find another woman. Just dont start being a asshole and that way she will have a reason to back away. their are 6 billion people in the world if a bitch think she is cute. remember that.