I was dating a girl 2 months ago, and we kissed on the first date. Then again on the second and also when I bumped into her one day in town. I did escalate kino in the form of rubbing up her leg etc but without trying to be too forward.

On our second date she was going to drop me at my friends house however decided to come in and, after hearing on of her best male friends was coming to stay later, and to come back after dropping me off as he was coming back. They've been friends for years however, so I don't think he's a threat. This ended by me kissing her and saying "You are cute, but you do turn me on a bit" and then us kissing some more with some kino escalation and then me leaving.

We were supposed to be going out on a Tuesday. She said she might be babysitting however, but she's gonna let me know.

Saw her the day before, spoke briefly, she said she'd text me when she knows again. She then continued to talk to her friend as if I wasn't there, and I was only waiting for my friend (girl) to come to meet me to get food.

I didn't hear from her and the date didn't happen

As we had lots of exams during this period, I made the mistake of telling our mutual friend I thought it was boring how she spent all her time revising. Then when we went out together she got with loads of boys in a club and I got very depressed from that.

A few days later I texted her to see how a party we were meant to go to went, and she didn't reply. Was she trying to show me how she was fun?

Moreover, last week we went to a festival together, which although wasn't awkward, we didn't actually talk to each other one to one.

Is there anyway I regain her interest?

I was dating another girl up until recently, and also lost the interest of another HB9. So I'm trying to regain some of the interest.

You kissed several times and you didn't even try to really lay her once. That's the problem. The girl won't wait for all eternity for you to fuck her. You're afraid of losing.

I don't know if there is a way to regain the interest but I don't even know why you care about that. Just do what you want bro, it's not like there isn't a shit ton of other HBs. Clearly if they are interested from the start then you're doing something right, all you need to do is drop the bullshit fear of failure away and have fun. It might take some time, but start getting used to having mixed results. What I mean by this is, some girl will like you, some will not. Some will first like you then when she finds out more about you it will turn her off, some will be the exact opposite. But if you never go for it, then you won't really know, won't really improve, and will stay here in this never ending loop of things starting out good and then dying.

Peace,

In$tinct

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