Many questions, I realize. Thanks to anyone with any answers.

1. Opener (Getting her to stop)


Just tried daygame for the first time. Direct on girls walking down a busy NYC street. We could not make girls stop. They just kept walking. On the rare occasion they stopped, I said "you're cute" and they were all weirded out by my neediness and walked away.

So after a weekend of trial and error, I think this is my new strategy.

Default opener: "Do you know where a ____ is..." She'll tell me. I'll make some observation to start conversation. ("you look like you're spanish). I'll try to get emotional investment. ("I love Rafael Nadal). And I'll convey 0 attraction until she gives IOI's. Then I'll slowly escalate with kino, more sexual topics etc.

Any thoughts on that?

2. College Girls


I'm a year removed from college. Any thoughts about approaching/dating someone still in college? Is it worth doing, and how is it best done?

3. Practice in Suburb


I want to practice but live in a medium sized (at best) suburb of the city. Though I'd like to, It's tricky to approach x number of girls/day. So this past weekend, to game for the first time, I took a train to the city. But I can only afford to do that so often. And when I do, I want to be in practice.

Any tips for practicing in a small town?

I got an interesting suggestion from my wing. Still do confidence challenge, just be less direct. He thought I might be able to get away with Neil Strauss' 30-day challenge, which is about gradually building confidence. Any thoughts on how I can practice in a suburb?

4. Weekend in the city.

If I go to the city for a weekend of game, any tips on pulling. Typically I'd stay with a friend or in a hostel. Hotels are too expensive (public places and bathrooms are out of the question). Is the ideal strategy to simply set up a night out for late enough that I have time to book a hotel?

5. Girl says she's from out of town

Is the ideal strategy what I listed in #4

6. Wedding Ring


Any tips for telling if a girl's ring is a wedding ring?

7. Inner Game

My inner game kills me. 0 confidence Any tips?

8. Social Circle


Any tips on social circle? I'm in a small town. I have many friends but not the type that would help for this sort of thing. For the few who potentially could help, any tips on nudging them to do so.