I've been flirting with a hb9 whom I was told fancied me by one of her friends. I messaged her recently saying "lets get a drink this week, when you free?" and she replied "I'm not really free in the evenings this week, but I'll be in town most days. Are you going out in ***** tomorrow night?" To which I said possibly not. Maybe do something next Monday. She has apparently not opened this message on facebook.

This was last week. I snapchatted her last night saying; " I need your help next week..." As we are both going to a festival and I was going to jokingly say I need to use her fierceness to guard my tent when I'm away for a night. She didn't, however, open the snapchat until today ( one day later) and hasn't replied.

I know she was interested a few weeks ago as my friend offered for her to borrow his phone to text me when hers broke and she said "no that'll look too keen". Also last week, she said to my friends (girls), "I don't know what to do about ****, I don't know if he's hot." To which my friends replied, "He is hot! Go for it." So there was definite initial interest. We nearly kissed once having lunch together in a park but I bottled it as she reminded me of another girl was seeing.

Also I've started seeing on of our friends, so this may complicate matters. Although I'm pretty sure they don't talk, and the one I've just started seeing isn't looking for exclusivity.

I am probably going to see her tonight at a festival I'm going to and don't know where to start.

Any help is appreciated guys.

You're going to a festival with her:

What you're currently doing is overthinking on:

- What her friends are telling her.
- What she's saying to her friends.
- Hints she may have given you.
- Negative shit she's done.

What you should be thinking about:

- How much fun the festival will be.
- How awesome bacon is.
- How much better everything tastes after you add bacon.
- Tits.

Just go to the festival and have fun, include her in but like she's the one who's earning it. Then just kino and escalate. It's not going to be hard mate. She's at a festival, she'll be boozed up anyway. Just kino, kiss, fuck. Simple.

She'll let you know if she's not interested BECAUSE SHE'LL TELL YOU. Stop overthinking/analysis in an attempt to save face, not get your feelings hurts or to lose "man points." Just go for it then you either

A) find out she's not interested and can thus move on/game other girls.
B) Fuck her.

Win/Win all round.

Best advice in forum history.

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