So this all happaned about a three weeks ago.
When my ex came back from her camping trip wih her orginization. The day she came back she was extremly happy to see me, nothing out of the ordinary... She told me she had to drop off some shirts at thes party they where having for everyone that went to camp.. She left at 9 and said she would only be there a hour, since shes not much of a partier. She came home at 2am, i ended up sending her home and told her i would talk to her tmmrw about it. Long story short our conversation didnt go so well, she said when she went home she thought of our whole relationship over the year and half and said she wanted a break, because she thought she was unappy threw it. I told her i think we should break up she agreed and now where here. the next day i poured my heart out told her i loved her and everything i saw us accomplishing togather and how i can me her happy she just dissmeissed it.

Threw out the next week i kept trying to make her realize that it wasnt a bad realtionship and how i always loved her and will always love her, but she kept denying me. She told me that she met another guy at camp and wanted to give him a chance since she thinks there so much alike. P.s the guy is super rich. She told me although she loves me and miss me that she wants to give him a chance, and we might get back togather sometime in the future.
I told her if thats what makes her happy ill let her live her life i just wanted to know i always will always love.

Fast foward a week or two me and my ex are still friends, she dosent really make a effort to hang with me but she is frinedly. When i was hanging with her, a coworker that im currently talking to texted me, and i know she saw it, but didnt say anything. I left my phone next to her went inside to get some water and when i came back the girl i talked to texted me 4 more times asking to hang and stuff. I ingnored it and kept talking to my ex. I wanted her to see the texts from the girl because even though what she did to me was completely bs, and i went threw alot of pain i still love her and want her back.

Theree days later, i go out to a party with my coworker and end up f closing. The next i texted my ex and told her if we can talk i need to get something of my chest. Shes my neigboor btw, moved in next door while we where dating. She agreed to go on a walk and talk. Before we started talking i get a text from my coworker and i text her back. I look at my ex and she got pissed, she started freaking out saying stuff like you never texted me back when we dating, fuck you i take time out of my life for you and you text a girl fuck you im done.

I got her to calm down and she agreed to hear what i had to say. I told her that when i hang with her its the best part of day and when she dosent come home with me, its really depressing i told her me being friends with her is unhealthy and i dont think we should. This is when she starts yelling more stuff like good i was over you a long time ago fuck you blah blah blah, I told her out of respect i might bring girls around and since shes my neighboor i dont want her to get jelous or think anything. She said if you want to go fuck your coworker go ahead your a peace of shit blah blah blah... We walk back to our house and i just go inside and she goes home.

Pretty much we havent talked in two days since that incident, the day i told her about the girl she blocked me on facebook and my number, My goal was to make her jelous and it worked, but i dont know where to go from hear i want her back soo bad. Also what pisses me of the most is she left me for another guy and i was civil about it and when i see other people she losses her mind.

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That'll seal it shut faster than a speeding bullet.

I know this is still fresh, and it still stings like a fucker, even just the thought of some random camper cramming his meat stick in her fun hole make you feel like puking.

But let's look at this in a different way.

Look back at how she treated you.

-Like yesterdays garbage.

But you want to invested so much time, energy, money and emotions into a girl who isn't even worthy of licking your butt-hole?

What if I told you it wasn't her you want so badly, quite so much as it was the suspense of not knowing if you'd get her back or not, and the dream of some day succeeding?

Your just obsessing right now, because you can't just have her.

Obviously you can pull other girls, you just did!

You need to simply cut this tramp from your life and move on.

Fuck being friends. Erase her.

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i went out with her for a year and half never really any problems i just love who she is not this bitch shes turned into, theres little things about her that i cant find in any other girls thats why i like her. I just need advice on the next move. Im starting the no contact right now

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It was painful to read the op, you have not understanding of women and attraction. Women are not logical, you trying to explain shit! Is useless... You are also extremely needy... Here is a video that will put things in perspective, watch it 3 times:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNovswAlmio

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Just never ever tell a girl you love her and need her after a fight... She wins, immediately.

Hurts to lose a relationship you've invested so much in... but the other posters here are right. She's treating you like a bag of shit...

You love her but not the bitch she's become... Well, guess what: She was always that bitch. She just didn't show you that side until things got ugly.

Find someone better. Keep sarging. Find others and close them like you did the other night. The more success you have, the less significant this bitch will be in your life.

Fighting is a piece of a relationship. Actually, it is a critical piece if done in a healthy manner. That is why I don't f*ck with relationships

But you came off needy as previous posters said. Whether you are in a committed relationship or not, you must always have the upper hand. And it is not as hard as it seems. Act like you always have, be real, like the way you did when she became first attracted to you. Busy yourself with other stuff and you won't have time to fill your head with bs lines and apologies, dude.

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Basically what your actions said to her were, "I have no value, I can't do better than you. I need you"

Basically you came off as a bitch, and let her be in control. Nothing could be less sexy for a woman.

She "became" this way because you are being weak and are letting her.

Refer to this old post

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do you guys think she was jelous or angrey when i told her im talking to another girl

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That was the best thing you probably did, keep fucking that other girl and fuck some more, and watch her come back.

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Completely this.

If a girl dumps you and you want her back, the best way isn't roses and true love, it's pretty visibly fucking other girls and not even contacting her.

Well recently ive been just talkin to a bunch of chicks and i love it, but at the end of the day i still want to be with her, any idea or things i can do maybe to get her to come back. I move out of our place at the end of the month, i feel like this is my last chance to ever reconsile with her?

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You're just asking to be treated like shit over and over if you go back to her. You're going to do it anyway... I don't know why you even asked for opinions - everyone here has told you the same thing.

I thought you needed help man, but you don't. I just read the post and this girl will be putty in your hands in a week or less if you just DON'T CONTACT HER ANYMORE!!


She knows where to find you and will come knocking at your door if you just don't reply to her to attempt to reach out to her for a week.

I've seen this situation many times.

DROP ALL CONTACT..

IF she calls you , do not pick up

She texts you, don't answer.

Let her come back begging...

And she will.

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Honestly, you need to shutup and take the advice YOU ASKED FOR. What you were doing obviously didn't work so get out of your head and your normal routine, sit back and do what we say. As uncomfortable and counterproductive as it may seem to you for the moment, it is better than any pansy sh*t you are going to pull.

Real enough for you?

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