hey guys, so Im a little rusty here been in in a couple LTR but they never worked out.
So here's my situation. I am a personal trainer at a gym and there's a regular that is HB8. We have said Hi a couple times and had one quick conversation about an exercise a little while ago.I just discovered she broke up with her bf a little while ago and even when she had a bf i would catch her looking at me all the time so much that numerous clients will even mention it to me.
As a trainer I don't like to hit on girls at all there and she makes me so nervous I get a loss for words when she is around it is really weird and has never happened before. Often we both avoid eye contact when we are walking by each other but then will make eye contact far away.
anyway I'm debating how to go abouts this. My friend at work is actually dating one of her best friends who I am also friends with so my question is should i get her to talk to her friend for me? or should I do it myself?
Because she is a regular and I see her everyday I dont want to feel awkward every time I see her.
what are your guys thoughts?

Cheers...

Hey mate I'm not a personal trainer, but I box and I'm one of the seniors at my gym someone that ppl look up to, and I've dated girls from the gym before. I'm a really social outgoing person I made myself a figure at the gym that ppl want to get to know as well as someone that ppl feel comfortable coming to if they have a problem or need help. So far I've dated 3 girls from my gym all went well I'm not dating any of them anymopre, but there's no awkward feelings between any of us I still talk to all of them regularly.

If you have rapport like that with the ppl at the gym, and a reputation dating girls from the gym won't be a problem for you. I personally reccomend you check out the article players guide to picking up women at the gym www.wayoftheplayer.com.

Ppl say the gym is a tricky place to pick up women I agree to a certain extent, but if you put the work in like a described above picking up women at the gym is no different then any other place.

Hope that helps good luck mate!!

And in my case it got so bad (girl is psychotic) I ended up leaving my gym. Extreme circumstance but there's that possibility.