I have been interted on my best friend for a long time, since way before I knew about game. Once said how I felt and got an LJBF. There is no denying we obviously have chemestry, that is why she is my best friend. And she is always picking on me for being into her.

Lately I think I have somewhat left the friendzone. We used to just hang out in group, now she invites me to go to bars and such one on one. Also, she never noticed my looks and recently complemented my new perfume and a few other details I changed. Besides, she is constantly shit-testing me, in all kinds of ways.

The bad part it is that she has some resistence to kino and keeps saying we're just friends. I get a clear feeling she doesn't know what she wants and is undecided as fuck. Like she is struggling with the old dilemma of "He might make a great boyfriend or I might lose my best friend"

The thing is, all of a sudden everyone thinks we are a couple and everytime we hang out we get remarks like "you look so good together", "you make such a nice couple" and "hope you invite me for the wedding".

Recently I tried playing a bit with it, just to see if the idea had planted a seed. And it just may have. We were going to a place and got lost on the local "Millionaire Ghetto". We were driving past all the mansions, talking about how nice it must be to live in a place like that. Then I had to make a U turn, so I said "well, let's see if you like how it feels" and drove my car on the driveway of a big mansion, like we were going to enter the gate. She bit it and said "Yes, let's go to our home... err... not "our" home..."

How do I play this in my favour? A kind of "if everyone thinks we belong together they can't all be wrong"?

Hey dude,

The men who get friend zoned are the men who just aren't coming across sexual enough. It makes the woman suspicious; these men start feeling these "romantic" things for a woman they haven't even been intimate with yet. Its puts the woman off.. " how could this guy possibly like me that much when we haven't even been intimate yet? " So they'll friend zone you to be safe.

Now as far as her flip-flopping, women are products of the moment. They are going to say what it is they feel in the moment with you. Directly after that moment they can be feeling something completely different.

If a girl says to you " You would make a good boyfriend" she is saying that to the guy you were in the moment directly before she said that ".. Now if you let her saying that effect you in a way that changes the way you feel about her; she no longer feels that thing, because you have become a new guy emotionally. You are no longer the guy she said that to, you are a new guy that attached emotion to her because of something she said. So she can feel differently directly afterward.

When we're with women they are constantly responding to the way we feel about them emotionally. Its all in the vibe we give off.

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Stop trying to be her boyfriend and just fuck her man. Use that playfulness and flirting, start wrestling, then whoops.... You accidentally bite her neck.

Then keep going with it and the clothes start coming off. If you want to be her boyfriend, you need to fuck her a bunch of times before.

And go out and meet some other girls. Quit treating her like she's your only option. It's creepy. If you keep it up, she's gonna start fucking someone else.

Thank you both.

What do you mean by "vibe"? How do I improve it? Any more advice you have I'll take it.

The vibe man, its the feeling you give off. You ever see a guy and get a feeling that he's trouble? He just gives off that troubled energy. So with this guy you are giving off the "friend" vibe.. That overly emotionally romantic thinking energy. Its that " Awww.. he would make a great boyfriend if I was turning 40, wanted a nice guy and one reducing in physical appeal. He's the safe guy.".. But in all actually, women want to want to be fucked.. They want to be around the guy thats "nice", but at the same time still wants to fuck them... And this is regardless of what you may think of her; chances are she isn't going to show you that side unless you first reveal your desire.

You can begin to work on this by developing a sexualized view point of her in your mind..

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character and your character becomes your destiny.

So begin telling yourself "(her name) is so fucking sexy; I want to have sex with her" .. Say this to yourself 100 times a day.. After 3 weeks it will becoming out in your words and actions/vibe..

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You are talking about inner game, right?

If I set my mind that I will fuck her I will start displaying through body language the kind of confidence that will make me more atractive and make her want me to fuck her.

Is that it?