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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2014 5:30 am 
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What are some tips?


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2014 5:39 am 
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What are some tips?
That is quite literally what it means; you demonstrate higher value. You show you are a lot of fun to be around than the average bar rat. You keep things fresh, interesting, intellectual, and most importantly fun! Once you're at the hook point, it's a cake walk. But that's neither here nor there. There are several forums posted here talking about DHV. Loads of routines to use in order to get you started. Just keep a few in your back pocket in case you feel an awkward silence.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2014 6:06 am 
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I passively DHV. I don't verbalise it unless asked but let my body language and social circle speak for me.

I usually get into VIP so i'll almost always have revealing VIP stamps or wrist bands in night clubs and i'll get a few people in with me without making a fuss. This is one example and I can tell you it's extremely easy to get VIP access to any nightclub once you know how VIP works.

For instance, is VIP a function only deal where you book VIP access in advance or is it a place where they pick and choose who they allow in? If it's the latter you can simply ask at the door for VIP access and, if they like the look of you, they'll let you in without hassle(Because people who know this stuff are obviously used to getting into VIP). If they look at you blankly or play dumb just throw in "I'm meeting my friends in VIP(Know where VIP is and mention the location instead of saying "VIP") can I get a wristband/stamp?" Or just wear a suit. You'll get in anywhere in a suit in night clubs that don't require special pre-bookings to VIP.

Next time you're at a club look up how they handle VIP(If you need bookings or whatever) then speak to the bouncers/whoever handles VIP as if you're in the know and should be there meeting people.

Suits speak volumes. Get a good fitting suit that looks good on you. Don't immediately go for a black suit because it might not look well on you. Try grey or even navy. You'll be surprised. You'll be looking at spending a minimum of €500 for a decent suit but it's worth it: Use it for work, private functions, interviews, weddings, funerals and the occasional night out.

Otherwise make sure you know people where you are and if there's a mix at an outing make sure you bring someone new. Bringing someone new basically tells everyone you know people and aren't just a tag along; you know people and could go wherever without these people. It's important to involve your friend and introduce them, don't be a dick and leave them to the side. Integrate them with the group as this is very beneficial for you. You DHV by showing everyone that you're not afraid to lead your friends and aren't intimidated by introducing them to other people. Plus you don't have to babysit them all night and shift your focus which gives you free time to focus on a woman of your choice without your mate hovering by your side.

Just want to add that you should treat your friend as an extension of you. Your friends will unconsciously be judging you based on how you handle this situation. If you introduce your friend, get him involved in the group and get all buddy buddy with everyone people will respect you for bringing someone worthwhile and at least semi-interesting to the fold. They'll be thinking "If his friends are cool enough to talk and hang out with us then just how cool is he?" It's golden.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2014 10:00 am 
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I think the original meaning of DHV was "brag without making it obvious that you are bragging", as Mystery used it. Talk about your fancy Ferrary as if it's nothing special, just something you happened to mention while telling a story. One decade later and a few tons of new insights has taught the PUA community that DHV is not quite "the shit". Instead, we should be talking about offering value, which is exactly what Ruggedized is talking about IMO. The word "value" in this sence is quite vague, and should be. Give people everything you can offer. Be generous (but look out for freeloaders), be funny, interesting etc.


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2014 6:47 pm 
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This is by far one of the most silly PUA tips I think I've ever heard of.

I get it man, but its so silly.. Its leads guys to do things like lying and projecting a false image of their life history which leads you no where after a enough time.

The best way to demonstrate high value is to be confident enough to be completely honest about yourself. A woman is going to respect that 10 times out of 10.

For whatever reason, women always test of ability to be honest in the areas where we are the weakest.. Be honest with them and they will help you. I remember when I would lie to women and tell them I was so well traveled etc.. They all thought it was cool, but it was a lie.. I never left the east coast.. So one day I told a woman the truth; that I never left the east coast.. One month later she had booked us two flights to LA.

So telling the truth will demonstrate the most value you possibly can and you will be rewarded for it.

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