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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 11:17 am 
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Pretty much there is this girl that I like and she just messaged me asking if I could drive her to another city that would take 1 hour by car.

The backstory: I met this girl about half a year ago and not long after confessed to her that I liked her (big mistake I know). I got friendzoned after that but we hung out a lot as just friends.

2 months ago she messages me randomly saying she doesn't want to hang out anymore. I dropped all contact with her after that message. My plan was to wait 2 months before messaging her again but it looks like she made first contact.

I'm guessing she wants to go to this other city for a party but am not completely sure yet. There are buses that go to this other city but in her message she says the times don't suit. I've already messaged her back saying something along the lines of "maybe, have already got plans but if it fits in with my schedule I'll do it"

What should I do. I guess if I do it I might look weak but at the same time I might look like a reliable person that she can depend on. I'm thinking of messaging her back something along the lines of "sorry, it would be better if you took the bus, that is what I'd tell any of my other friends" and if she replies with something bullshit I'll joke with her saying she is a mean person.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 12:37 pm 
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 12:46 pm 
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Girl is totally using you, buddy.

I wouldn't even give her the courtesy of a reply, myself.

She said she didn't want to talk to you anymore... If you start being available to drive her around you may as well wrap your balls up and leave them on the passenger seat for her.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 6:05 pm 
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Girl is totally using you, buddy.

I wouldn't even give her the courtesy of a reply, myself.

She said she didn't want to talk to you anymore... If you start being available to drive her around you may as well wrap your balls up and leave them on the passenger seat for her.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 6:15 pm 
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Girl is totally using you, buddy.

I wouldn't even give her the courtesy of a reply, myself.

She said she didn't want to talk to you anymore... If you start being available to drive her around you may as well wrap your balls up and leave them on the passenger seat for her.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 6:22 pm 
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She's using you 100%, go direct and ask for a "favour" in return for doing it. Show her who's the alpha human now.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2014 8:27 pm 
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Girl is totally using you, buddy.

I wouldn't even give her the courtesy of a reply, myself.

She said she didn't want to talk to you anymore... If you start being available to drive her around you may as well wrap your balls up and leave them on the passenger seat for her.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 4:18 am 
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Update

Girl messaged me today to hang out. She said that the request for me to drive her was quite silly and that she will take the bus instead. The vibe I got was still friendzone, looks like not enough separation time has gone past to break that. I guess the best thing for me to do is just move on. I really like her but I don't think there is anything I can do so I will have to move on.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 9:21 am 
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Good. This girl has got you where she wants you and will snap you in 2 mentally.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 12:29 pm 
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Don't be stupid man.

I don't even see why you felt like you should respond to message. A girl friend zones you, drops you, and then contacts you a month later when she needs something. lol.. I'm laughing.

You think you're going to look reliable, or like a door mate that she can drop and pick back up whenever she pleases?

The fact that you're even considering this is the reason you were friendzoned in the first place.

What you should of response to her asking that with is " Lol nah - you'd have to blow me :o "

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