Here's my situation. I'm stationed on a small post with 1000 people, 95% male. There's only a few ladies, and only about 3 that are attractive. I've been seeing the hot/single one for the last 2 weeks and f'closed already. We have to keep our meetings secret because we could both get in huge trouble for fraternization. With all of the other guys trying to hit on her, I have to watch her resisting all the other guys, and she's used to it. She comes home with me every night so I know she's not trying to jump on another guy's bus. But like I said, it's difficult because we have to be conservative around everyone and because she's the HB on post, there's like an orbit of men trying to pull her at any time.

Fighting the other guys is not an option, I'd win most of the time, but I'd lose my rank and money.

PDAs are also out of the question, because we have to remain discreet.

Look mate its not your job to fight of other guys...thats her job, its your job to be yourself and let her come if she wants

Worrying about it is total AFC, man. If she is hot, she's been hot her whole life and guys have been and will be hitting on her 20 times a day, every day. Live with it. Who the hell are you to decide who she talks to and who should be talking to her?

Solid advice. I am not trying to control who she talks to, and since it's a small post, most of the guys are my friends/acquaintances. I have been playing it cool, and it's almost funny to see the guys try to impress her and fail.

Whats with the whole "possession" thing?

This is funny.

Confidence.

If you have a hot wife/girlfriend/fiancee', she's going to get hit on.... and on a military base, all she needs is two X chromosomes.

Remember: if you can control it, do something about it; if you can't, don't worry about it.

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Have you considered taking her to the middle of the base, pulling her down on her knees, peeing on her and screaming "THIS IS MINE!"?

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RSDTyler

Guys like this always lose the girl.

I LOVE having my girl out in public, seeing guys ogle over her it's social proofing and actually makes me more attracted to her.

If you want a submissive girl convert to Islam and find a woman in a burqa.

Very close to reality.

Only make her say it while your dick is in her mouth.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I second the peeing on her lol

Nothing says "I LOVE YOU" like taking a public dump in your partner's mouth. Do this and I guarantee it'll keep the men away (except the occasional fecalphiliac).