I am talking to this girl over messenger and she lives on the other end of the state. She knows how busy I am, I am a corporate trainer and a personal trainer. I pretty much work all day during the week and most of the day during the weekend. I think she believes that I don't have other options and that is hurting my game with her. How do I show sufficient value so that she knows I have other options and that I am showing value in the right way. I only talk to her when I am at the office, but she pretty much already believes, partially my fault, that if I am not at the office I am training a client of sleep.

Hey King,

Thats the thing, the only true way to show that you she isn't your only option is for you to genuinely have other options. Quality women aren't fooled by that "fake it until you make" mantra. Besides I wouldn't encourage lying or pretending to be something that you are currently working toward.

Now, the thing with women is.. They are only bothered by the things that seem to bother you. If its bothering you that she is your only option, she is going to feel repulsed by the fact that she is. You'll be giving her that energy in your text and conversation.

However if you are perfectly content with not having any other options, she will find comfort in you communicating that to her subconsciously. If a girl is the only girl I'm talking to; I have no problem telling her if she ask " You're the only girl I'm speaking with", even if she is currently dating other guys.

I don't have to fake things or put on a show, I'm comfortable being who I am and women can do nothing but respect that.

Find comfort in your situation first, and then if you want to change that do so. But don't think its mandatory.

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