In my previous post I explained how I've been completely out of the dating scene for a few years. I decided to go out with a friend
tomorrow night and see if I have any luck..

I feel pretty socially backwards as far as what guys are finding attractive.

Do I go all out : heels, skirt etc.

Or just a cute pair of jeans a tank top and little makeup? Glasses or contacts?
I can post pics if needed.

Basically trying to meet some genuine, laid-back guy who wants a "fwb" type of relationship. How do I broach that subject when it gets to the intimacy?

Wasn't aware that this site was cross dresser friendly.

Good for you dude, you rock them heels like it's nobody's business!

I'm not a transexual..I was born with and continue to have ALL my girl parts.

But thanks for the input.

I guess it's not OK to ask for friendly advice?

Most guys are open to a FWB. Just make sure the guy won't get super attached.

Heels look better (I say this even being a short guy), skirts are great.

Go all out and be sexy..

Wear the heels

throw on the contact,

and put on the skirt.


What you want to do is weed out the men who are intimidated..

And be transparent, if you see a guy you find attract; walk on over to him and say hello.

Its 2014, men are a bit more reserved (starring at the smart phones the whole night), so if you see something you want; don't stand around batting eye lashes; walk over and let him know.

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Thanks so much to you both!

Men always say I come across as 'unapproachable' or intimidating. So that really helps. Also I'm just under 5' tall,( not sure how I seem intimidating) so the heels are most likely my best bet.

Wish me luck

Lol you have to post pictures.

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Hilarious btw. I'm laughing.

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Depends.

Personally I tend to go for cute girls over the hot girls. Hot to me is a slimming dress, high heels and a lot of make-up. Cute is a nice loose dress or jeans, flats and not too much make-up. Of course, I generally associate cute women to their height. Short women tend to be cuter(Thus the flats) where sexy women tend to be taller(Thus the heels).

FWB to me is a sexy woman who won't be clingy or turn something casual into something more intimate so it's all down to your frame. If you want a casual FWB you need the attitude. The attitude is basically not being involved at all and being extremely passive with the guy but with one clear understanding: It doesn't matter at the end of the day you'll still fuck each other when you're horny.

Just uploaded a couple pics with my glasses and without.. for some reason this forum hates my phone, and won't let me post them..

On photobucket, Jlyn_Nicole_Smg


This is really frustrating for me..to have to figure out how to meet a SANE, non-clingy guy who won't go apeshit if I don't really have time to date.

I prefer a full FWB, where we can hang out, hopefully play video games together (I'm kind of a gamer nerd) and have regular sex 4-5 times throughout a week. I've had some bad experiences with dating and relationships.

Just post a link.

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Tried to..says it looks 'spammy' since I'm a new member

Be very clear with what you want, and look for guys with an "abundance" mentality - that is, guys who have options, know it, and don't get too attached to any one girl.

Just don't want to target a douchebag with a huge ego and zero bed skills lol

Dress according to the type of guy you want to attract. if you're looking for a douche bag dress like a tramp, if you want someone more refined with values then dress it up a bit and show a bit less but rather be more on the alluring/suggestive side of things, for example.

Most guys here don't know their head from their ass, so they'd automatically tell you to dress skanky, or skank-lite.