So Girlfriend of 4 months has just finished her final year at University and is now moving home. I'm also in the same year but currently on placement and completing my final year next year. She lives in Stoke-On-Trent. I'm studying in portsmouth.

My usual course of action was going to be, bring attention down for a couple of days then slam it on home for the final week she is here. Fuck her senseless as much as I can, treat her special, the usual. HOWEVER complications (as per usual) have arisen. She's become ill, is on anti-biotics and could need to go to the hospital. Drinking & sex are off limits for a few days.

Our last weekend (the weekend coming) we were going to have as much fun, sex and such as possible but now thats not happening at all as she now has to go to London for a hospital appointment (friday) and will be going back home afterwards. She says she will get a train to do the same thing the weekend after but I don't place my bets on things that "might" happen. The week after shes going on holiday with her BFF for a week.

I don't really know what to do, shall I just leave it and "see what happens."

Her interest is high as I've made her have shaking orgasms, been introduced to her mother, complains I don't text her enough or reply quick enough and such. However the last time I saw her (we were both ill) she brought up the whole london thing and would be leaving early and also can't have fun due to illness before then so my illness + that news = me being grumpy. Where I just said I had to go get some medicine and do some things.

Haven't spoken since. I have no idea what to do in this kind of situation, I've always been the one to move away.

Any advice is appreciated.