Here's the deal, according to many people that meet me, I give off an overconfident/douche vibe. I was talking to a girlfriend of mine and she said I looked overconfident when I walked into a party but when I asked what was said that expressed that overconfidence the resolution was that it was how I carry myself which in retrospect is not necessarily a bad thing.

It always seems that people think I'm a douche and then they get to know me and say I'm a really cool guy.
Now, I'm the kind of person who is always trying to better himself. I like to make the necessary adjustments to perfect my game and how I portray myself. I'd say I'm an assertive, alpha individual because I do carry myself with confidence but at the same time I have a good head on my shoulders.

I feel like I shouldn't apologize for my actions or the way I carry myself but at the same time I don't want to have to justify myself every time something like this is said.

Another example is recently a girl subtweeted about "guys that are cocky become less attractive" then texts me and says to take her advice. Well, she still wants to f*ck me so what's the deal?

Stop stalking her twitter lol (i joke continue stalking). It's a shit test if she tells you that too your face though.
Dw you are doing fine continue on as long as the pussy keeps coming.

There's different ways to be confident. A real confident man, doesn't have to SHOW confidence. ie saying cocky things, being slightly narcissistic, always having good body language.

You see, real confidence is much more subtle. Things like a strong eye contact, giving a sincere compliment to a woman (regardless if she's married or not), being vulnerable. Vulnerability isn't weakness. It's putting your balls on the line, regardless of the fact that women MIGHT stomp on them. Telling women they look amazing and at the same time, tell her that if she doesn't like you, she can walk away.

Confidence lies deeper than what people see on the outside. Faking/acting confident is a mask that insecure wussies puts on. BEING confident is much different.

Cheers.
AB

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"Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi

Are you getting laid?

Do you have friends?

If the answer to those two are "yes", then fuck the opinions. You can't please everybody man; thats what you'll learn on this path to better yourself. There are going to be people who just don't like you. It just is what it is.

You sound like me when I was a tad bit younger. When you shine bright some will love it, others will try and steal it; and if they can't steal it they will try to kill it. The role you're playing is a challenging role; people will try to put you down, but you just have to see it for what it is and shrug it off.

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I've talked to many girls, and most of them agree to say that a good-looking guy who knows he's good-looking and who shows it off loses his value. They don't find him attractive anymore. They'll go like : "who the hell do you think you are?"
Of course, if you have the looks, you probably are still getting laid, especially by girls who don't know you that well or drunk horny girls.
On the other side, insecurity is a bad thing as well. So you just need to find the right balance.

They may say that, but their pussies are still quivering. I can say whatever I want, doesn't mean its what's happening.

I will now translate this from Womanese:
Good looking guys who are BORING, must be boring because they do nothing to develop their personality, due to their good looks.

Yes, boring good looking guys are indeed less attractive.

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RSDTyler

This.

You can be the juiciest, ripest, peach in the world... But there will always be people who don't like peaches.