This morning, I was aiming to approach a girl who usually catches a bus at a specific bus stop - but once again, I CHICKENED OUT.

Well, I became hesitant before I even got to the point where she would have been. I gave myself a priority since yesterday to do it in the morning and I was eager and confident to do it. But then, I left the door, walked half-way there but only to turn to walk another direction back home! Why does this always seem to happen when I am literally making my way to pick-up a specific girl. This is so annoying. I don't seem to have the mental stability to force myself and to say 'fuck you brain, I am doing it'.

I have been meaning to approach for the second time (in my life, as the first girl I approached was almost a year ago) since the beginning of this year and whenever an opportunity is in front of me, I chicken out. It does get me down to the point where I think I will never get a girlfriend as I have had only one in my life too. I have confidence in myself, and to do other 'public' things but when it comes to girls, I just cannot do it.

First things first, you are trying to do something new & there is a process to learning... there is a right way & a wrong way.

Write down 10 things you might say in course of a conversation with her.

1. Her shoes
2. Classes she is in
3. Random tv show you saw
4. etc
5. Message me & we can chat more

Once you have a few things written down, you can add a bit to them, say something like "Hey" "Whats up" or "How was your weekend"... be careful as she might respond & be interested in you.

She could reply with "Hi" or something like "My weekend was pretty good, hung out with a friend, went to this party & broke a nail this morning but its ok because I have a Math test after lunch"

If you are going to get along with women you need to understand the art of conversation, learning to talk about anything & yet about nothing... for the purpose of building friendship or friendly interaction with someone.

Message me if you want more.

Mike.

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Michael Van Marco

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Stop. Being. A. Pussy

Here is the stalking, negative acquaintance again. All one can do is laugh off such misery.

You just need to find the balls to go and talk to her. We've all been there (REALLY!) but we did it. Now it's your turn

Just go for a warm up.

Go to a local shop, buy an apple or something, talk to the clerk and comment on how busy or nice the day is. That's the first person you can warm up to. Next one could be a random person on the road, just ask for the time and then when you're at the bus stop you'll feel more relaxed and aware. Just talk to her.