Trying to hook up with a girl who has a 5 year old son from her first marriage. She is a regular at the restaurant I work at. I number closed already. Any advice? What should I be careful about? She is from Brazil if that makes a difference...

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Samuel M. Wright
The Jelly In Your Donut

Get sexual, while at the same time giving off a bit of a provider vibe.

Set up a "Watch a movie" at her place, after little Timmy's bed time. This should be cake!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Fo her son's fifth b-day, getting him a Spiderman doll, superhero coloring book, and a box of crayons. He likes comics. Hoping to facebook her this week..

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Samuel M. Wright
The Jelly In Your Donut

Why are you facebooking her when you said you number closed? Sounds like your moving in the wrong direction. If your going to her sons birthday party, text her something funny like your going to come dressed in a gorilla custome and buy him a pony. or some super shit like that, but if you have her number, forget facebook and text or even better call.

Yeah... Yourself, Her, and the kid...

Yourself.... Baby daddy might not like you and want you around his kid.

Her.... She was already married once. Don't lead her on thinking the relationship is going to be something its not.

The kid... Unless you plan on sticking around, don't let the kid get attached to you (or even meet you) cause if she starts cycling through "father figures," that kid is gonna wind up all types of fucked up.

Just be smart about it and be honest.

Fuck her first though....

This.

1. Never play 'Daddy'.
2. Never babysit.
3. Never get past FWB.

Unless you have a solid plan to support someone else's kid for life.

She doesn't have many options for going out trolling to get her guts pounded flat by a charmer like you.

Keep it simple and reap the bounty of pent up mommy juice.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Good advice all around. She loved the present I got for her kid, grabbed on my arm and hand to thank me, the first time she ever initiated any kino with me. I think I have a shot, may be asking her out this weekend or next, timing is bad because I am packing to move to a new apartment, just have to work on logistics...

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Samuel M. Wright
The Jelly In Your Donut

Okay, I found out that I just missed her birthday, which is close to her son's birthday. She told me not to buy her a gift, but I think that is a trap. I bought her a book of poetry and I am thinking I need to get her a card. I do not want to appear over eager but I want to show that I am interested and I am not stingy or inconsiderate. Good move? A co-worker suggested flowers and a gift card but I think that would be going overboard. We have not gone out yet, but I see her about twice a week at my restaurant. I think we have some good chemistry, just scared of blowing it. She is studying to become a hairdresser so I am thinking of asking her for a haircut in exchange for my tarot services. Thoughts?

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Samuel M. Wright
The Jelly In Your Donut