Just got out of a relationship of a year about a week ago. Heavy alcohol/ tobacco/ tinder and low confidence. Anyone have a remedy for this slump.. Btw I broke up with her. Not sure if that's relevant lol anyone wanna tell me how to stop being a wide set vagina?

You'll probably hear: get out there, meet new people, mingle, surround yourself with friends, bang it out with a ton of chicks...all decent advice.

Really, it's going to take a little time to recover. You're not being a bitch because you need some time to let go and heal. Lick your wounds and stay busy, just don't backslide. It's okay to mourn loss and you can do so without beating yourself up.

Surround yourself with positive people and get out of the house. Let yourself heal, but don't pick at the scabs.

Hope that helps.

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Every time I have a setback in life I try to focus on all new (future) possibilities I have. In other words, try to focus on the positive. When you mourn, you are thinking about all the good things you once had in the past, which are now lost, and you tend to think about them as things that you don't have anymore - in a negative way that is. Your mind tend to embellish old memories too, making you think things were better than they actually were.

So... Take the good things in the past for what they were - good experiences that you appreciate. And when you think about the future, try to think about all the great things you can do, all the possibilities.

Do 100 push ups. Break some shit with a hammer.

Get shithouse drunk with your Bros. Bang some poor broken girl to young for you'll never see again.

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Everyone's different. Some people can get up on that horse and not bat an eye over the past. Others require the "mourning" period. The only thing that helps regardless is pretty much keeping busy, working out and going for walks as opposed to sitting inside doing nothing with yourself. Doing exercise releases chemicals in the brain that reward you with feelings of happiness which is a definite plus. It doesn't matter how much time you spend you'll still feel happy if you do 5minutes a day or an hour.

So go for a walk, work out and hang out with friends. You never know the next time you go out you might bump into a chick that makes you want to get into the game frame of mind and try it on with her.