met this HB 8.5 online and i am yet to meet her face to face but she seems eager to meet up..i role played with her and she later said she has started developing feelings for me and i have never even met her..so my question is can you fall for someone through texts and calls alone when you have never met them? and by the way i did play along and told her i liked her too..

I depends... You cannot fall in love in the real person behind the text messages, but you can fall in love with the figment of your imagination - the illusion that is created in the texts. It's like writing a novel, creating a character for the reader to fall in love with. The obvious risk with this is the disappointment she will feel if you don't live up to her expectations.

update: we are meeting soon and i don't know how to play that date..i am kinda confused..this chick replies to my messages quickly and submits to my frame..i also played it along and told her i am into her when i am not that much into her..i am afraid i would come across as incongruent...what should i do? should i concentrate on comfort building and not attraction? what should i say? should i just sweet talk?

I'm a bit confused.. Are you saying you're not really interested in her yet you are in my book quite nervous and unsure about the situation. It seems to matter a lot or is it purely based on your ego?

Anyway, if you're unsure you can always reread your text to re-experience the vibe that was set between both you and this girl. The best possible way to have a succesful first date is to carry on that same vibe that was created. As the first poster mentioned, she's into the illusion of what she is experiencing. She has created an image of who you are and 9/10 it'll be a person who she finds to be ideal. This is why i do not like text gaming at all, but if so, better be prepared.

i am meeting her soon and i am thinking of these script; "i never thought it was possible to develop feelings for someone i have never met so when i saw myself falling for you i had doubts,i thought perhaps i was weird so i asked my cousin about it. He asked whether i ever liked a character in a book to the extent i felt bad whenever something bad happened to him or her..i answered him yes...he then replied " yes you have your answer then, " "it is perfectly possible and normal to develop feelings for people you have never met after all most successful couples are the ones who met online"....what do you think of that guys?? will that make her melt and drop her panties?..any input is wellcome.

ive gotten many girls to be sexually captivated before even meeting them via text and phone convos...through online dating sites of course

as long as you remain congruent in person (ie same persona as text/phone), panties will fall on the first or second date

just make sure everything translates, you have to be the same person you present yourself as through text

That sounds pretty good to me. But honesty drop the cousin book part. It throws the whole thing off a bit. Maybe tell her why you like her so much without ever meeting her like specific things and try to avoid awkward pauses and she might even believe you.
-Lindsay

Just be careful not to use this too early, maybe even not on the first date and change wording accordingly - you don't want to come across as clingy or strange that you "fell for someone" via text, even if she has said that she has.
Another important thing is she is likely expecting you to be relatively similar to your mannerisms via text and so be careful not to deviate too much from the person she was talking to on the phone - this is often difficult because we often put on a better persona while texting as we have time to reply and think about what we want to say.

Have fun and good luck.

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update: we had a fun date with heavy touching involved..she later texted me that she made up with her ex and that she both likes us...apparently i should be cool with that..don't know what to do...by the way she told me herself that her ex was an arsehole and a very good looking guy..