I use the site Badoo and I came across this gorgeous 18 yr-old Polish girl (who lives in London, where I live) a few months ago and she is EXACTLY my type...petite, long brown hair, perfect brown eyes, etc etc...she ignored my messages but she had her PIN on her profile and I added it...and she was ignoring my BB messages as well.

Eventually I got so frustrated I called her a "cu_nt" a bunch of times, expecting her to just block me, but instead it was the thing that finally got her talking...she wanted to know why I was so angry and I said cos she wasn't giving me a chance and she was judging me etc and we ended up having a long conversation and eventually we were just having normal chats on BBM and getting on well...I asked her out a few weeks ago and she said "sure " and gave me her number.

The other night she was ignoring me and I asked why...she had in her BBM status "Chats?" and I said, "I'm right here, why don't you chat to me?" and she just blocked me on BBM, SPAM and Badoo. I got really frustrated and sent her another text calling her a "cu_nt" as well as insulting her religion (she's a Jehovah's Witness; I told her all JWs are crazy) and calling her a co*ktease, telling her to burn in hell, etc. She then texted back saying, "Thanks, now I have enough evidence to go to the police with and tell them you were harassing me" which I ignored and took as an empty threat.

The one place she hasn't blocked me on though is SPAM. When I talk to her on there she says things like "leave me alone, I don't EVER want to talk to you again. I'm going to block you now," but she doesn't do it. We had a conversation (if you can call it that) tonight on SPAM and she threatened about 15 times to block me...she kept saying "I'm going to block you now" but didn't do it. I keep trying to bargain with her like, "Just unblock me on Badoo or BBM for now and SPAM in a week if you feel sure I've changed" and she just says, "I'm not gonna unblock you on any of them and I'm gonna block you on here too now."

Do you think she is trying to give me another chance, because she wants to see if I'm really persistent and passionate enough about her to try to still get her even though it seems impossible? And that's why she's left me this lifeline? How do I get my chance with her back?

One interesting thing I noticed tonight was when I ignored her, she kept sending messages, even though they were basically saying the same thing, i.e.:

Go away.
[05/05/2014 11:35:26 PM] SW: OK but I'm not giving up on you, princess. You're worth all this persistence and perseverence because you're so lovely. And I know you appreciate the attention I give you.
[05/05/2014 11:35:51 PM] K♥: No.
[05/05/2014 11:36:41 PM] K♥: I clearly dont EVER want to speak to you,its just quite pathetic now
[05/05/2014 11:37:18 PM] K♥: I blocked you on the computer,will blovk you on the phone now
[05/05/2014 11:38:35 PM] SW: Cool story bro
[05/05/2014 11:39:34 PM] K♥: No one says that anymore.
[05/05/2014 11:39:57 PM] SW: well i never got the memo

I'm sure the comp/phone thing is BS, as surely if you block someone on SPAM they're blocked, regardless of whether you did it from your phone or comp.

And if I come across as an AFC or a white knight, I am and I admit it. I've only just started getting into pickup and I haven't really started utilising it yet. To be honest I'd be happy to just get this one girl. I'd really appreciate you guys' expertise on how I can use pickup to somehow get her back, even though my only line of communication with her now is through SPAM and she could block me at any minute. I still have her number but whenever I've rung it recently it's just gone through to voicemail. And I'm still blocked on SPAM and BBM. I'm 26 and this girl is 18 and the girl of my dreams; I didn't lose my virginity till 22 and if I got this girl it would make up for all I missed out on in my teen years. I know this is an AFC/WK thing to say but she really is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen and I really do want her badly and I don't want anyone else. Thanks for reading, I know this was long. Any help & advice is appreciated.

You need professional help. And I'm not saying that to be condescending. Really, it'd be for your own good and will make getting girls easier.

It's a lost cause brother.

the only thing and I mean THE ONLY thing she is getting out of this is practising argueing. you have no value to this girl. lost cause she has allllll the power you have zero, zilch, none, nada, 01001000010100010001

Leave the poor girl alone! Work on yourself.

You're an idiot

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Nice attempt at trolling you put work into this. But unfortunately it's not even funny

"I've never actually met this girl. Just stalked her to a ridiculous level. And I love her. I love her and I'm going to marry her (she just doesn't know it yet.) And once we do finally touch, it will be amazing and there will be fireworks. (probably coming from her trying to shoot you) And we will never let go of each other... Or atleast, I will never let go of her because I'm completely bat shit crazy."

Dude, shut the fuck up.

You sound like a fucking lunatic.

This is a pick up forum... Not a Stalk and Rape forum.

You're 26 years old. Figure it out.

Wow, I never expected so much hate. Don't know wtf is wrong with you guys. I won't be coming here for advice again, that's for sure.

This why most dudes shouldn't get into pick up. Guys take a couple concepts and act like bastards bc of it. Delete all this afc white knight bs out of ur head man, go outside get some fresh air, get a hobby, and leave this poor girl alone. and most importantly never ever do what u did again. if that girl was my sister, and she showed me this, I would find ur IP address and beat u to a pulp.

Just to update you all (you can choose to believe me or not, I really don't give a shit), my Blackberry died the other night so I bought a new iPhone the next day and opted for a new number...when I added hers, she didn't block my new number on SPAM, and she's slowly started chatting with me again. We even spoke on the phone again this weekend, and she might be coming with me to an Eminem gig in July (she's saying no for now but that she might change her mind).

MarlyandsFinest, it's pretty ironic that you're telling me I'm acting like a bastard despite your threats towards me.

Anyway, I refuse to let the hate and negativity in this forum bring me down...it's only going to spur me on harder to get her so I can prove haters like you wrong.

shes gonna show up with another guy at this gig and make you see her point "the girls just not into you" and its gonna piss you off and your gonna show it -mark my words

Another update: I decided to ignore her all day, and just now she messaged me on SPAM asking me which hairstyle will look best for her yearbook photo tomorrow and sending me gorgeous headshots and saying, "sorry it's a bad photo," etc., showing she needs my validation. Every time I go offline she messages me again.

I'd have thought you guys would be happy for me, but I'm sure all I'll get is more hate. I don't care though; like I said before, it will just spur me on even more to make sure I get my dream girl.

And Zirk13, are you willing to put money on that?

guess I should have said yes, post ended

Sam the MAN you are not.