So what I'm looking for is a system and method I can internalize when it comes to texting and initially meeting girls.

TEXTING: I'm too serious in my texts, just go straight to logistics (my logistics need work as well) and they get bored and I ALWAYS don't get a reply after 2 mins of texting. I recently had a breakthrough with this and became more carefree, texted girls and it was fun and they replied.

- I get nervous when texting, if they don't text back
- I'm constantly afraid when texting thinking ill just mess up
- I don't know how to be in control, so I can adapt and respond to her right
- IMPORTANT: I initially don't know what to say when texting, starting the convo is hard. Once I have material and something to riff off of its easier.

MEETING GIRLS: I find out that first impressions are most important, you have 3 minutes to make an impression and it better be good. This is where I mess up. I'm usually too serious and I make fluff talk too much instead of saying things to make her attracted. I'm kinda good at online game, I set up 2 dates in one day this week. But usually I'll meet a girl and not even kiss her cause my game in real life is bad.

-I don't challenge them with my masculinity or domain age them so they feel attraction for me
-I don't know how to make her see me as a man
-I don't know how to make her feel REAL ATTRACTION for me
-I don't know what to do/say when first meeting her on a date

I put in a lot of effort to write this, to figure out what I'm doing wrong so if you can please address all of the points I made and help me so that I can have a system that I can learn and use on my own without asking for help. Lately I've been MASSIVELY depressed and and have self-esteem so it's been destroying my personality and taking away my sense of humor so my texting and social interactions with girls are suffering from it.

Summary: why girls don't find me attractive, why I can't text them right, why I don't know how to talk to them and always make the wrong choices when talking to them. Why I can't attract them when I meet them.

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Maybe it will help if you post samples of what you text and the conversation that follows afterwards.

Real life game is linked to your inner game. You have to start with yourself, fix your inner game first.