Hi Guys

I have been out of work for quite some time this is partly due to lack of motivation as well and maybe the fear of failure in interviews also.So I don't get to see many people and talk to many people apart from at the weekends. I do have a big mixed (male and female) social circle which is good I guess.

I'm looking in to working a little on my inner game/ becoming more alpha. Not necessary for PUA as I mainly want to improve in my everyday life but also with girls too.

So I have these books and I am wondering what order is best to read them in?

1. How to win friends and influence people
2. Pulling your own strings
3. Psycho-Cybernetics (the old version)
4. The power of now

I heard that How to win friends and influence people will make me too much of a nice guy and pulling you own string might make me come across as a complete asshole ?

Like I said I am not doing this strictly for PUA and more for my self development and every day life. Although I would hope that having this knowledge will defiantly help me with meeting girls as well.

Thanks

Xwj

try NLP maybe you will find it very useful.
as introduction to NLP, there is a book of Milton Erickson
not sure about the name
try to read about him.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milton_H._Erickson

The field is the key.

Books have their place, but sometimes just doing it is the best you can do for your 'inner game'

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I'm both with Vlads and PEBBLE on this one.

Understanding NLP concepts and rearranging things in my own mind manually were a big boost to my inner game, but it doesn't worth shit without going out and constantly putting yourself out of your comfort zone.

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