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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 3:53 pm 
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So me and this girl hooked up 2-3 months ago and have been fucking on and off since. We've gone on a fair few dates, i've cooked for her and she's done the same. She's followed compliance tests and such and has told me that her sleeping with me is a "big deal with her" as she doesn't do that sort of thing even when she's drunk.

(this is true as I've actually known her for awhile and gone out clubbing with her alot.)

Anyway we've both gone home for easter. The first couple weeks we were texting daily, facebook messages too, snapchats. All that shit. She even stated that she's ridiculously bored and that easter feels like "i'm just wasting time till I see you again." She also told a friend of mine that "I really like him but I don't know where I stand, he never tells me stuff like that" <aka she's stated she's exclusive to me, i havent done the same.

She gets back at the beginning of next week but since saturday we haven't really contacted each other. It's not only from her (altho her text was the last) but from my side too. Just sort of run out of things to talk about. So essentially communication is at an all time low and it's leaving me puzzled.

Is this someting to be worried about? I have realised I do have feelings for her and do plan to tell her im exclusive to her after our next sex session because FUCK doing that over texts.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 7:19 pm 
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Don't worry about it.

Reconnect with her and meet up in person, then evaluate the situation.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 12:51 am 
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Let her hint at exclusivity before it becomes a conversation topic. It kind of sounds like the well appears to be running dry so you're looking for options to bring some water back. Cool off man. Forcing emotions into action will only push her away. Understand what "love" is, its a choice, just like fear is. In all actually it doesn't exist; it's just an interpretation of chemicals produced by the body. And not every feeling should be acted on; just as if you had a FEAR of cars, but you had to drive to work. You would eventually have to fight that feat to get to work. Love is a similar emotion.. Just because you feel it, doesn't mean it should be acted on. A lot should be weighed out first.

Distance can create a roller coaster effect.. Things may appear to be going down, but have some faith in your sexy man. Within a few days it'll pick back up.

Besides, theres more to life than women ;)

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 6:45 am 
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Let her hint at exclusivity before it becomes a conversation topic. It kind of sounds like the well appears to be running dry so you're looking for options to bring some water back.
The thing is she's hinted at it before and I didn't really notice it as it was after sex and I was going to sleep.

The rest was noted btw :)


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:10 pm 
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Let her hint at exclusivity before it becomes a conversation topic. It kind of sounds like the well appears to be running dry so you're looking for options to bring some water back.
The thing is she's hinted at it before and I didn't really notice it as it was after sex and I was going to sleep.

The rest was noted btw :)

And let her bring it up again. As long as you're being a man, she will bring it up. No girl is just going to leave things as is. They want to know " Where is this going" eventually. Let her hint again, before you make any subscriptions.

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