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PostPosted: Sat Apr 19, 2014 12:09 pm 
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Long story short: I'm real good friends with a coworker. She flaked on me more than once. I said I want to be more than friends. She LJBF'd me.

Since then:

She requested a transfer to my office and now works on the desk next to mine. Is always interupting me to show stuff on facebook, listen to music, etc. She literally do not spend 10 minutes without calling my name. Kinoes to get my atention by touching my arm, etc.

Texts and fb chats me after work even though we spend so much time together. Hinted at hanging out (not a date, a simple trip to the local mall). Sometimes when we talk she shows clear IOIs, like blushing, touching her hair and moving her chair closer to mine.

Following the standard procedure after an LJBF I reduced comunication to a minimum (wich is hard, as you imagine) and started mentioning other girls. No chance to game other girls in front of her, unfortunately. She is starting to miss my compliments, a few days ago practically asked for me to compliment her and gave a few cues about me not caring as much about her as I used to.

Also, she stoped talking about other guys, even though I know for a fact she went out with two guys and things fell apart after a couple dates.

I have a feeling I got the upper hand after she LJBF'd me. Right after it things fell apart with one of the guys, maybe that made her see me in a different light. Also, she is hit on quite a lot and probably none had reacted with indiference to her LJBF. Maybe she expected drama, maybe she expected me to act like some needy beta. And now my "I don't give a fuck" act is making her fear she may lose my friendship.

My general strategy now is: Do not reply as as often to text and fb. Leave her hanging sometimes or take my sweet time to answer. When I do answer, be cocky and funny and stop replying after a positive response on her part. In person, alpha body lenguage, negs, cocky and funny. Also mentioning other girls quite often.

How would you procede? How do you think I can capitalize on that?


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