Hey guys,

For those out there that are disappointed with their results, just keep in mind that it's a numbers game and that persistence eventually pays off

So, I met this chick who seems to have taken an interest in me, and I am now considering taking her on a first date. The thing is that I don't want to screw it up this time.

First dates have always been a horrible experience for me. I get stressed, there are moments of awkward silence and the girl gets eventually bored with me. I really don't want to repeat that.

I have been thinking and I believe the bad results were also my fault as I didn't choose the right "format" for my date. We would go to some bars and chat for a couple of hours. I really cannot show my true self under these circumstances and end up looking like a boring no-life person. I have also noticed that I shine the most when doing an activity together with a girl (playing pool or bowling, going to some concert/exhibition, etc.).

So, I have been thinking about ways to make this first date more entertaining. I could take this girl to a zoo (to be honest, I love animals but I hate zoos as most of the animals look depressed and sad). I could also take her to an exhibition (there's a temporary exhibition about my country and I have heard many people praise it - I also got free tickets for it and I was looking for an opportunity to go with someone). There are also other possible activities, like indoors rock-climbing, going for cycling in a nearby forest, or simply go for a game of pool (this last one is the perfect place to do kino, you go behind her and teacher how to play, haha)

The girl in question seems quite hot-headed (in a good sense). I noticed that she likes being challenged, she always took the bait when I was teasing her She doesn't seem super sporty though, so I might rule out any physical activities.

What do you guys think? Any advice would be welcome.
Thanks in advance, mates! Cheers

Good idea to rethink things if they weren't working out in the past. The date depends on the girl and your dynamics but sounds like you're thinking the right way. PM me if you have more details because I have some friends who are pretty good on first dates.

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