Hey everyone

Need your advise

I met this girl last night and i was able to establish a good rapport with her in an hour and i could see she was enjoying my company, we were talking about all sorts of stuff like sexual positions etc etc but she also said that one night stands make her feel like a bitch.
As usual, she refused my offer of coming back home with me (i assume for the same reason).

Now my question is, how do you handle such situation, and this i guess is a common resistance which almost every girl will have.

How not to make her feel that way whilst you try to extract her?

Coolguy

It comes down to experience and knowing when to go sexual, but my first inclination is that you went sexual too early or dropped it somewhere. You displayed too much interest in nailing her. And she read that desperation. That's why you have to add in disqualifiers and you have to push/pull. You don't HAVE to use negs but they can be useful to keep her on her toes. You have to put her in the mindset of she's chasing you.

It's possible you just met a chick who is deadset on no one night stands but there was probably something you could have done. Possibly bounce with her from where you are to another place to get some trust and make it feel like you've been together for long.