| yall might know me or read some of my post, back in high school and my freshman year in college i was a huge PUA, i could charm my way into a girl's pants easily... i wasn't the best looking, and although i was a D1 basketball player i didn't get the girls because of that....but my freshman year everything went down hill.....my gf of 3 years cheated on me for the whole first semester i was in school, i didn't find out until November and even then she lead me on to believe she was through with him, she would then ignore me, compliment him as she tore me down for a WHOLE MONTH, being stupid i tried my hardest to win back her heart, but i failed miserably, i stopped going to practice i started eating alot (gained 30 pounds) and lost most of my confidence, but is till believe i had the golden tongue, so at the end of second semester I started going out again, i tried to talk to this senior in high school just to get dissed for the first time (i've picked up maybe 15-20 girls never to get dissed before that day) i thought well there's a first time for everything, then a week later i tried to talk to this other girl who was a HB10, i was used to pulling those types of girls but she dissed me also....i kept trying only to get dissed, dissed, and dissed i probably attempted 10 girls only to get dissed by each one ........that was 2 years ago
so my questions is can confidence really be gained by rejection, can one get so immune to rejection that they become confident.....i've heard it many times that the reason rejection hurts is because it hurts lol and that if you are confident that rejection won't hurt you then you're more confident that you can get her.........right now the only thing i lack is confidence and i really want to get back in the game, im willing to get rejected 1000000 times if it gives me atleast an ounce of my confidence back
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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie
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