Evening comrades,

I'm the type of guy that likes a challenge, and when I can't take on that challenge because i don't know how or I'm faced with a barrier, it bothers me like FUUUUUCK. So here's where i need help. The story goes like this.

Around a year ago, I met this girl who was awesome! (just to stress, i do not have 'oneitis' over this chick) I ran my game on her and me and her were so into each other it was crazy. I had the chase and when i finally had her, the excitement for me was gone. I began treating her badly by not giving her enough attention and not putting her first and all that shit chicks love. Long story short, I lost her. She tried to get me back and i rejected her multiple times. This upset her and now she hates me.

So here is my challenge to you fellow PUAs out there! I have limited contact with her, I can text her but she only replies short answers and only out of courtesy. I haven't spoken to her in around 3 months. She seems to have lost all interest in me.

Again, I'm not obsessed with this girl, I just want her back so i can change the way i acted before and see what happens. Any advice would be awesome guys.

Face.

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Pain is temporary, Pride is forever.


That's what.
- she

I have done this tons of times...got a girl lost interest and then regretted. My advice is what everyone's else's will be...forget her and find someone new. Not saying its impossible, but from what you have said it extremely unlikey she will ever have feeling for you again. MOVE ON!

i gotta agree with odyn, nonetheless i understand the problem, and still believe there is always a way back i have same attitude as you.
but the case is really bad, your actions executed defense programs (sorry for the mechanic language i'm coming from NLP) hardwired inside, which basically means she Suppressed you, in simple language that means she can't see you or talk to you, too painful.

if you can make her look at your eyes once, use this, its my friend's tactic, he is special, he can make everyone forgive him, he combines positive and negative childish feeling, like kidding, like speak as you are children and sound like one, with funny faces ect...
i assume it works because it recalls good memories of careless periods of life, when everything was simple, when the defensive system was shutted down.