So I have been speaking to this girl for a couple months. We have been on a date and k-closed. We flirt a lot and things seemed to be going great. She is a very shy girl but all of a sudden she is now saying she doesn't want anything with anyone yet she still wants to talk and is still flirting Loads. She isnt the type of girl that flirts with guys as she is very shy... any suggestions on what to do?

questions about this situation
1. is this happening at school or work, because if it is your in a comfort zone with her

2. are you flirting and chatting everyday in person, over the phone, or over some kind of chat system. only ever take the flirting as real when its in person, or by phone (audible)

3. are there actually other choices of people she can talk to in this setting or place and have you seen her have conversations with them.

keep in mind even when the girl has known you for awhile, women tend to send of signs of flirtatiousness withing the first 5 minutes with every guy she knows look for signs further in your conversations and at the high peeks, tell her about something your doing later in they week or something if she gets excited about that later in the conversation not right after. were going together come with

We don't work or go to school together. We just meet up at the weekends.
We text most days and yeh she flirts on the phone and in person.
When we meet up we usually go for drinks. There has been a few instances when someone she knows has been in the same bar but she never goes and speaks to them.
Usually never have this kind of problem with girls. I would leave her and move on but I love a good challenge ha