I met this girl at a party a month ago. She started flirting with me, I barely had to make any effort. Drunk makeout and then her friend dragged her home after we exchanged numbers. We text a couple times, and I keep decide to take a risky and keep it dirty instead of the usual boring stuff I text. It seemed to work so I asked her out. She says she might be busy but she'll let me know so I said let's just chill some other time (shit test?). I ask her out a few days later to chill on a Sunday, to which she agreed. She even texted me on Friday asking me what I was up to. Doesn't seem like she's not interested.

Sunday rolls around, I show up on time and text her a last minute venue change. Twenty minutes later she texts me about going out the last three nights (to be fair it was St. Patty's weekend), looking like shit and just waking up from a nap. She asks if we can reschedule, to which I reply don't worry I bet you still look cute I'm already here blah blah. She then texts me back saying how bad she feels. From my experience calling her out or responding aggressively has NEVER worked. EVER. So I decided to just shrug it off like nothing happened and changed the subject.

I ask her out again a few days later and say we can chill at x time/place if you promise not to sleep through it. She agrees. I texted her the day before when we're supposed to meet up and she didn't reply until the next day at the exact time we're supposed to meet up. Then she apologizes again and says she has lots of schoolwork and then says can we please chill on the weekend (which was this past weekend). I kinda figured she was gonna flake again so I'm glad I didn't even show up to the place. At this point I'm thinking this girl is playing me. Ignore.

Now she's texting me. WTF. Thought I lost her. Validation? She misses my attention? I really don't know what to do. Ignoring her doesn't help get me laid. Go out and meet ten other girls doesn't work because I don't cold approach. This girl is one of those girls that will take anywhere from a minute to three hours to text you back. Completely random. What's the best way to reply? Preferably something dirty or something that'll easily lead to dirty texting so I can rekindle the interest.

I have experienced the same with a few girls. I sarge a lot so others should consider this is the exception rather than the norm.

Since you've got nothing to lose, give her a quick and dirty text. When she replies, escalate the foul sexual language some more. If she keeps on going, call just before her sleep time and give her some phone sex.

If she moans on the other end, give her commands like, "Masturbate your pussy for me. Imagine me rubbing my cock at your clit." Use masculine language. Be commanding. Be dominant.

As long as she complies to your commands, keep on going. Get her used to your commands and dominance. When she comes 2 or 3 times from phone sex. Don't call or text for 3 days. If she texted or called you first, give her a command, something like, "Get out of your house now. Let's go."

If you win, you WIN. If you lose, you still WIN since now you have a solid decision point NOT to waste anymore time and effort on this girl.

P.S.

For your legal safety, DO NOT delete any of her horny replies. Always start with mild dirty language and then go hard core when she keeps up with your pace.

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Yup, attention... She's likely also got a few options and is dealing with them too. I'd let her cool off and go no contact - you can't keep accommodating her schedule without any regard for your own.