I have no problem attracting women, a lot of the time they approach me. My problem is once I start talking I can literally see them lose interest. Its not because Im socially inept or anything, I know I can talk to people comfortably, but I think its the content of what Im saying and the way I say it to women. I find myself slipping into serious conversation mode very quickly, whereas I see other guys talking to women and they're just bantering away like its natural and they get great reactions. I;ve tried to banter and I do for a minute or so but I always slip into serious mode. I was talking to this girl a few weeks ago and I was getting lots of good signals from her but then for some reason I started talking about a book I had read on the BTK(great book by the way) and that seemed to kill things dead in the water.
Anybody know any good banter routines or a way to keep the conversation light and fun?

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I imagine you can pull off serious talk if you maintain prolonged eye contact, speak slowly, use kino at the same time (your hand on her thigh and allow her to mirror by pulling her hand onto your thigh next to your bulge). There is something about speaking slowly and deliberately that is very mesmerizing.

Hi Warren,

I'm glad that you put up the question about how to use banters with girls because bantering is the key to not only wildly attracting women but also to making women chase you and demonstrating high value.

Here's a little piece of warning. Purely saying out loud banters won't help you much in getting her to flirt with you if you don't have the playful mindset and if you don't know how to use your negative body language the right way. Most importantly, whatever banter line you decide to say to a girl, you always need to make sure that it feels totally natural and fun to you. If it doesn't feel totally natural an fun to you, the girl will soon pick up on your negative emotions about you just blindly reciting some lines in front of her and the game will be over.

To help you and other guys with the same question, I warmly recommend that you check out my following articles where I went into details on how to make her chase you by using banters, how to use your negative body language in combo with using your favorite banters and how to talk dirty (on this page I'm sharing with you the 8 most common types of banter lines and the 8 most common dirty pick up lines where I'm telling you the difference between a banter line and a pick up line):

http://www.pickupflow.com/make-her-chase-you.html

http://www.pickupflow.com/negative-body-language.html

http://www.pickupflow.com/how-to-talk-dirty.html

If you have any additional questions about how to use banters, just feel free to send me a private message and I'll see how I could help you.

Hope the information above helps you.

Take care!

Bruno

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