Right been on one date with this girl. Banged her on the first date (week and a half ago) and have fucked her every time I've seen her so far which has been about 3ish times now.

Anyway Saturday night we had a party around my house. This girl came but pretty late (about 2am) I hadn't called/text her to ask her where she was and when she arrived I just got a slight "oh hi" but I just went back to chatting to people. Also during the day she sent me a text describing her night out before in London to which I pretty much replied "Sounds fun, My family are down so I'm busy today. Cya at the party"

Towards the end of the party I decided to just boss it. At the point it was obvious she wanted me to talk to her so went for it. Long story short ended up going back to hers, f-closed. After that there was the obvious cuddling and such and she said she wanted me to stay the next day to watch a film. I agreed (i'd be hungover doing the same at home anyway.)

In the morning standard compliance, got made a sandwich, coffee, tea, biscuits. Even nursed me a bit when my headache turned into a migraine. Then I said something like "Right gonna go home to clean up for a couple hours then return to watch the film and look after my housemate (he'd failed with a girl and he takes that shit badly)" to which her attitude sort of changed. Compliance failed more and the SPAM just felt a bit awkward.

I left, went home and within an hour I'd gotten a text saying "Heya, gonna spend time with my Claire. I've been ignoring her all day for you so I feel bad. You do your good deed and I'll do mine tonight and we shall meet up for filmage later in the week. What do you think? x"

At the point I was knackered and didn't actually want to go back as I wanted my bed so just text her something like "Sounds good, I'm knackered now anyway. I'll cya in the week x"

I'm a classic overthinking (had counselling before in my life as I used to overthink about death) so any help at all even if its "calm down you retard and play it cool" is appreciated.