So i have been texting this girl now through kik because she is not comfortable enough to give me her number. I have basically been role playing with her and keeping the texts light and funny, maybe getting into a very light rapport. However when I suggested we talk on the she still did not want to give me her number. Her excuse was the last guy used to spam her phone and she recently had to change numbers.

I believe the problem is she wants me to build deeper Rapport with her, however I have always heard to never build rapport over texting. So is there a way to get her to trust me without building rapport over texting or should I give in and start building it?

You're accepting the level of access she's giving you even though it's not acceptable.

Either push her for a number or push her to meet you. You'll be KIK messaging her forever otherwise.

See what she does... If you're talking to her for days and still don't even have a phone number - good fucking luck actually meeting the girl. If she stops talking to you - what have you lost, really?

A timid, unsocial girl who won't meet you or fuck you.

Thanks buddy that totally helps put things into perspective. Now I see what I have to do, I probably let it drag on too long honestly but I definitely learned from my mistake. So I told her that im not going to message her anymore and that if she wants to talk with me I gave her my number and well see what happens i guess.