So what are all the rules when it comes to getting back to girls when they message you. A girl (whom I dated and stopped commuinicating with) sent me a comment on FB. She didn't private msg me I noticed (is it cause that would be too personal and a IOD?) she sent me a comment on a status if mine saying she seen a video I sent her and she told me her thoughts on it. My motive is to see her again.

Why would she not just PM or txt me? (it could also be cause she's shy?)
And how long do I wait before I reply and how should I reply

E.g. A day (might be rude or show idc/not needy) or a few hours. How do I know I'm doing the right thing

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Guys?

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Some girls are territorial; just like dogs pissing all over the place to say, this territory is mine.

For example, my Valentine's date told all of the girls in her social circle that she was my Valentine's date.

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Yup.

For her birthday my ex fuck buddy (we weren't going out but she proper wanted to, crazy girl) put on my facebook wall after a girl from home put "Come Home I miss that pretty face" to which two minutes later she posted "No pressies please, just that big cock. I think its why your single, only I can handle it"

on facebook.

In other words what your saying is that she commented on my FB openly to let other girks know she wabts me? But i dont hv a lot of other girks on my Fb?
Ok, but if you can please address my main Question, in regards to getting back to her.
I plan on calling her today to set up a date, would a FB post and a call be too much?

I sort of play mind games on myself thinking if I don't FB her back she'll get offended. Yet I plan on calling her so idk what to do.

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Just call her. Don't do shit over Facebook, leave that kind of bollocks to her.

Don't overthink texts/phone stuff, just do it. Saves you time and you get a response immediately. Just don't be needy/clingy or react just be chilled about it. She'll respect the phone call.

With the whole "her getting offended" thing. Don't worry about her getting offended, thats "putting the pussy on the pedestal" and will cause you to overthink.